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Snogging before sex

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Jollymollyx · 13/05/2020 13:02

Random question for married couples with multiple kids. How often do you ‘snog’ I was just watching tv and there was a couple passionately snogging and I just realised we never do! Even sex is not much kissing like before, it’s just getting straight to it. I miss the passion feeling. Do most couples just get like this after kids or is it just us Confused

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EarringsandLipstick · 14/05/2020 20:43

A couple of times he’s made me orgasm purely through passionately kissing me.

RUS that's a seriously good kisser

This thread is making me very sad. I've been single since the end of my (abusive) marriage nearly 7 years ago 😞

I'm a really tactile person & miss touch so much. My ex was utterly appalling but was very good at kissing / sex, which continued a lot longer than it should have as I was desperate to connect with him in some way. I always loved kissing & it would have happened frequently (before things got incredibly awful - well the whole marriage was incredibly awful, but the last two years was basically without any affection, before that there was).

I had these romantic notions of meeting someone but can't see it. People are always amazed I don't date & I am confident about my looks etc but I've no chance (3 kids, almost no time alone) and my self-esteem and ability to trust anyone are shot to pieces.

I'm glad to see the stories of affection & snogging here!

RiverCrossing · 14/05/2020 21:10

Kissing is my favourite. Every day, in some form whether or not sex is involved. And I refuse to use that horrendous word for it Grin

themaniac · 21/05/2020 19:29

I always thought snogging meant with tongues. And only do it with sex I hadn't realised we don't do it until this post

Greenkit · 21/05/2020 19:39

We have snuggled everyday since we started dating and ling may it continue

Greenkit · 21/05/2020 19:40

Long ... even

Greenkit · 21/05/2020 19:41

Ffs snogged

bunny85 · 21/05/2020 19:48

I'm married with 2 kids. We've been together (lived together) for nearly 10 years. We still snog a lot, that is before and during every sex, which is 1-2 a week usually, sometimes more, sometimes less as we have 2 small children.

Itsallgonewoowoo · 21/05/2020 19:52

Married 20 years and regularly snog, always before sex but sometimes just a quick one in an ad break.

Igotta · 21/05/2020 19:56

You can't snog without tongues, that's kissing not snogging.

Spottybluepyjamas · 21/05/2020 20:19

Never.... ew! Been married for 2 years and love my husband dearly, but I hate snogging. All the spit and germs!

Sugartitss · 22/05/2020 17:16

I can’t stand kissing.

Most of the times people have rank breath, a brown or green tongue and the thought of food being mushed about makes me feel sick.

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