Snogging before sex

[Jollymollyx]

Random question for married couples with multiple kids. How often do you ‘snog’ I was just watching tv and there was a couple passionately snogging and I just realised we never do! Even sex is not much kissing like before, it’s just getting straight to it. I miss the passion feeling. Do most couples just get like this after kids or is it just us

[Squeekybummum]

We never do either, together 15 years and 3 children. I get a kiss on the cheek as husband leaves for work, that's as far as it goes.

[coffeeandgin26]

All the time! And not just before sex or during - sometimes we have a good old 'snog' (I bloody hate that word!) just because.

We quite like each other though

[concertlover]

@Footywife
I agree. My wife & I kiss quite a lot but only little pecks on the lips. But if I ever make an effort to hold the kiss for longer, she often does respond. I should persevere.

[Caramel78]

We usually start snogging in bed and then that turns into sex or foreplay a few mins later. During sex we’ll occasionally have a snog too. I would find it weird to have sex with no passionate kissing

[beachbreeze]

Been different in different relationships, usually if I have gone off them a bit I will kiss them less frequently or not at all. I think it's important actually, but wouldn't bring it up as that takes the fun away and makes it a duty. I'd just kiss him and walk away when the children are about or when out and you're not obviously about to run to the bedroom

[Fidgety31]

I wouldn’t be able to have sex without a good song too. Goes hand in hand for me .

[Redskylark]

I've been with my husband 10 years, we snog a lot as foreplay and during sex. Daytime wise we kiss a bit and snog sometimes but not loads

[Jollymollyx]

I hate the word snog too. We do it during foreplay, but not for ages before hand for the fun of it like we use to years ago. I‘ll definitely start the habit of more. Hopefully it will naturally happen after the baby moves into it’s own room!

[Fruitytootie]

We usually snog before and during sex if we're facing one another.

[Healthyandhappy]

Never crept just b4 sex. Then again my husband wont hug me neither lol

[Rebelwithallthecause]

Intrigued at how noisy snogging could possibly be ?!

[Minimoosher]

Married 20 years here and would snog more regularly hut we can't snog in front of the children. They get weirdly possessive.

My eldest will join in for a cuddle, my 2nd just signals his disgust. My 3rd (mummy's boy) looks at OH and tells him "I don't like that" in a menacing voice and my youngest joins in with the kissing.

[SirVixofVixHall]

We snog, 25 years together.

[coronabeer23]

It’s “get with” not “get off with nowadays!”

[YouJustDoYou]

I want to but he always turns his head away. I think I'm just shit probably.

[fortunacookie]

Me and DH didn't really snog much, only during sex. Neither of us were really keen on snogging - he was pretty good at it (in my limited experience) but we both found it unhygienic!

at unhygienic...no snog no sex imo

[fortunacookie]

I want to but he always turns his head away. I think I'm just shit probably.

Aw how sad trade the f**er in !

[fortunacookie]

My little boy always demands a group hug too minimoosher

[Lsquiggles]

We only snog during sex which makes me sad tbh because we used to kiss loads at the beginning and it was great. 4 years and a 10 month old DD will do that though!

[Fred578]

I’ve read the word ‘snog’ too many times... it looks bizarre now

[babynamesarehard]

Tigetger 14 years, still kiss all the time

[GentlemanJay]

I love kissing. It's so sensual and erotic!

[loubieloo4]

We enjoy long kisses most days, just enjoyed our nightly kiss as dh has gone to bed.

Been together 25 years with 3 children

[Hunnybears]

Yeh we snog at least once a day really at some point. It’s not always a ‘toungy’ though 😳