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'The conditions are ripe for me to cheat again'

77 replies

spacedone123 · 26/04/2019 21:02

Said by my husband tonight.
Where to begin?

OP posts:
NorthernRunner · 26/04/2019 21:02

Packing his bag would be a good start

Sarcelle · 26/04/2019 21:03

Context

TotheletterofthelawTHELETTER · 26/04/2019 21:04

The conditions are ripe for you to fuck off should have been your reply.
Don’t put up with that.

Samind · 26/04/2019 21:05

What an idiot. Get his stuff packed.

JQBased · 26/04/2019 21:05

Again?

BlessYourCottonSocks · 26/04/2019 21:09

I would have replied, 'I'm done here'. And would be phoning solicitor to file for divorce on Monday.

Blue5238 · 26/04/2019 21:11

'Oh I don't think so. You can't cheat on someone you're not in a relationship with, and this one is over'

QueenBeex · 26/04/2019 21:11

Chucking him on the doorstep and bolting the door is where I'd begin

KMoKMo · 26/04/2019 21:13

Wow OP. Get rid.

Hanab · 26/04/2019 21:14

Pack his bags and show him the door 🤷🏻‍♀️

RagingWhoreBag · 26/04/2019 21:14

The conditions being that you are married to a cheating scumbag. Kick him out, you deserve better Flowers

novasglowx · 26/04/2019 21:14

"Off you fuck then" binbagged within the hour.

Honeydukes92 · 26/04/2019 21:19

I agree with PP, DH’s belongings would be in bin bags on the driveway!!!

Thank you, next x

PicsInRed · 26/04/2019 21:21

It's adultery
But it's not cheating
Cos ur binned

💩👋🥳

Aimily · 26/04/2019 21:24

Need a bit of context, but if my dp said that to me... As pps have said "can't cheat when you're single, goodbye"

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 26/04/2019 21:31

That's a fucking threat. How dare the fucker say that to you! And I'm not a great swearer. I'm outraged on your behalf.

I'd tell him "the conditions are ripe for a divorce, you cheating scumbag.'

AgentJohnson · 26/04/2019 21:31

The conditions are now ripe for you to finally leave his arse.

He’s making a threat, change your ways or he will do that thing again, that almost cost you your sanity last time.

He’s making his infidelity, your responsibility and not his choice.

Fuckwit.

Ellisandra · 26/04/2019 21:35

I like PP “can’t cheat when you’re single”.

Poor you Sad

Branleuse · 26/04/2019 21:42

conditions are ripe for you to tell him to fuck off then

Dirtybadger · 26/04/2019 21:46

I would tell him he has permission so it isn't cheating. Then start divorce proceedings.

Ruru8thestars · 26/04/2019 21:49

Kick the bastard out

Verastsnhope · 26/04/2019 21:50

This is where you point to the door and tell him you’re sorry if it hurts his misogynistic arse on the way out. He’s a massive prick.

MumsyJ · 26/04/2019 21:51

Bin bag at the ready for starters? He's an idiot.

SleepingStandingUp · 26/04/2019 21:54

So yhow many times has he cheated that you've put up with?
And why are you with him?

"Bye"

nespressowoo · 26/04/2019 22:05

Throwing him out and changing the locks!

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