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Original poster

What would you think if your partner received a message....

73 replies

Fratelli · 06/02/2019 20:55

From a woman saying "are you playing tonight?" And you know for a fact that it isn't to do with something like football for example.

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AnyFucker · 06/02/2019 20:56

On line gaming ?

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 06/02/2019 20:56

Eeek I’d be a bit worried if there is no obvious game/sport link. What do you know about the sender?

Ddssdd · 06/02/2019 20:57

Lottery?

gamerchick · 06/02/2019 20:57

I would think it was something online.

GreenEggsHamandChips · 06/02/2019 20:58

Computer games, board games, little miniature goblins...

xTinkerhellx · 06/02/2019 20:58

My first thought would be online gaming. I frequently send and receive messages similar from friends (male and female!) For online tournaments/missions etc.

Weezol · 06/02/2019 20:59

Online gaming.

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Fratelli · 06/02/2019 21:00

He doesn't game.

Nothing much. They've known each other years. She's got a partner and 2 kids. My partner and I live together with 2 children. Met her once, can't say she was particularly nice to me!

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yetanotheropinion · 06/02/2019 21:00

Masturbation.

Owlettele · 06/02/2019 21:01

Sadly, I may be inclined to think they have some text fun (at best)

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 06/02/2019 21:03

I’d say either some imaginative text fun or FaceTime is getting a workout. Sorry.

How has he been generally?

SauvignonMum · 06/02/2019 21:03

Sexting

Bestseller · 06/02/2019 21:03

Is he going out?

How does he know her and what do they (admit to) do together?

Lottery?

Variousartists · 06/02/2019 21:04

Yes sexting if he is not a gamer or meeting up.

BifsWif · 06/02/2019 21:05

If he doesn’t game/have hobbies that it could refer to, then I think the answer is obvious.

What do you think it means? Have you spoken to him?

WelcomeToShootingStars · 06/02/2019 21:06

Playing a game, if not console then a phone game.

ColdCrumpetsandButter · 06/02/2019 21:07

Have you asked him?

AnyFucker · 06/02/2019 21:07

If you are sure it is not gaming/bingo/random online innocence then this looks very dodge

Kittykat93 · 06/02/2019 21:07

Sexting

Original poster
Fratelli · 06/02/2019 21:07

Not the lottery. There's no previous message thread. They were kind of part of the same group of friends. Like a car club!

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Bestseller · 06/02/2019 21:09

Oh dear. If they have regular contact and there's no previous thread, then doesn't that mean he must be deleting messages?

nrpmum · 06/02/2019 21:09

Maybe she sent it to the wrong person? I sent a message to my boss telling him I loved him last week. Clicked on the wrong H 😂

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Fratelli · 06/02/2019 21:09

They both do firsr responsing and he's claiming she's asking him if he's going on call. I can't see why she wouls refer to it like that.

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SparklyMagpie · 06/02/2019 21:11

I'd think going out for a drink to the pub for town. That's what we tend to say

Bestseller · 06/02/2019 21:11

Oh I know people who would say "are you coming out to play? " meaning are you on shift? So it could be good.