Would you be bothered if your DH shared a cigarette with another woman?

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As in, same cigarette passing it between them. Female colleague on a night out

No, it wouldn't bother me...

No.

No. Would you be bothered if it was a man?

Not at all

Nope. Not in the slightest.
Unless he's not a smoker.

Nope

Unless thats the excuse for lipstick on his mouth

No

Just sharing a cig? No. At work nights out all the occasional smokers seem to emerge and crash cigs from the full time smokers, so I would guess that something like this had gone on.

No that's ridiculous

I'd be more disgusted that he smoked.

Only if it was post coital —and they were on a night out in a film set in 1930s Paris—

No i would not.

It does seem like quite an intimate thing to do - yes sure people bum a cigarette off a colleague if they’re not a regular smoker, but to share one passing it back and forth between them shows a level of comfort with each other’s saliva that I wouldn’t like!

Are either of them regular smokers? Is it someone you have suspicions about already?

I would be uncomfortable about it. Although I’d like his stinking smokey breath even less tbh.

Actually what??????? Of course not.....

I would be a bit but if they'd both been drinking and are friends I think I'd laugh it off!

Is there more to this OP?

I would be bothered with him smoking. He has never smoked and has a disease with is several agreviated by smoking. The actual sharing won’t bother me.

No. Unless there was a massive backstory, in which case that would change things.

But two colleagues sharing a cigarette isn’t something I’d be upset by, no.

People share cigarettes?
Why?
Is he Rock Hudson?

Yes. For whatever reason, it implies intimacy to the same level of kissing-sharing saliva-and I'd be uncomfortable but feel unreasonable expressing it. What's wrong with smoking one each?

Yes, I fucking hate smoking. If they were passing a drink back and forth I would not bat an eyelid, actually I think I would prefer them to snog than smoke.

No, I'm a smoker and I can assure you it doesn't require any level of intimacy,

If iI did I'd be intimate with a shit lot of people. 🤣

If it did, not if I did!