Hey Guys, I have been with my partner almost 2 years. We don't live together and have children to previous relationships. He is always good to me by buying me things and helping with groceries etc but I need some help as I'm starting to lose myself. Every time we argue, he breaks up with me. This could be a tiny fight or argument and he either tells me to leave or he leaves. I have depression and sometimes cry and he says to me he cant deal with me being upset all the time. Last night I got upset about the baby we lost( I terminated as i was told by him if I kept it he would leave) I told him how much he hurt me, he straight away went to get out of my house and broke up with me, I begged him to stay, I call 20 times until he answers and then I always end up apologising. I know I sound pathetic but I feel some sense of entrapment. Over the past 6 mths we have had a few arguments and he has left every time breaking up with me and me begging him back.
I am a very calm and I never yell or scream or call him names or anything but when we fight he yells and belittles me and I just stand there crying and begging him to stop.
I need advice guys. Is this him being controlling or does he really want out of the relationship? I dont know where to go or who to turn to. I starting to feel like its emotional abuse and its wearing me down.
Once he over the argument and stops ignoring me he will go on to be very loving and spend money on me. Please any advice would be great.
Krystal