do you flirt with other men/ women?

[BarbieLovesKen]

just wondering really - im madly in love with dp - getting married next year - our relationship is great but lately, I have become a bit of a flirt with other men - completely harmless - I would never dream of taking it any further - but is this normal? do you all do it?

think it's perfectly normal especially on the continent and getting more so here. I do it apparently though I'm unaware of it

Of course

I would also flirt, just never get the chance.

Yes!

i flirt with everyone, it's my MO. real life is easier if it's done with a bit of a smile and a wink.

have a friend though who grabs my guy and does all the girly giggling, eyelash fluttering

snap, LL. in fact i've proably flirted with you...

god yes, very gently though. Always have done though. Even when I'm feeling minging, I can turn it on

oh i don't flirt with men because they're men, though. that's weird and gross, imo.

oh thank God!!!

Thought I was being somewhat unfaithful - iyswim!

I am and always have been a complete and total utter flirt. It's perfectly normal and as long as you don't folow through, don't worry about it.

perfect!

ok.. but then do you mind your OH doing it?
(if you were to know)

I don't think I'm capable of flirting, sadly - I'd look like a berk if I did. Although I suppose it depends on your definition of flirting - I'm thinking of the hair-twirling, eyelash-fluttering, cleavage-squeezing high octane variety.

As long as it remains just flirting, of course its harmless. And fun! And who objects to being the one being flirted with? Such a nice feeling and an ego boost that someone can be bothered to flirt with you!

my dh is completely oblivious, but definitely likes that i'm cheeky. he'd never doubt me, he'd have no reason to.

Yes, I think so, definitely with women actually, less so with men, and I REALLY dislike men flirting with me. Have only just realized this. I go very po-faced and ask them cutting questions.
OH MY GOD, I must be so tightly wound.

And, on a roll now, I used to really hate dating too. Made me incredibly anxious.

true, 100, i don't like it when men flirt back as they generally do it so clumsily. women, gay men and newsagents are better.

I just started a thread about what flirting is but have no replies so maybe some on here can answer? What do you see as flirting? I think everyone sees it differently so would like some different opinions as to what it actually is.