Found Partner On AdultWork !!!

[MummyMarie1990]

Hi I’m wondering if anyone can help me or knows anything about this sort of thing.. basically I’ve just found my partner after 11 years on a site called AdultWork with escorts offering their services 🙈 the page had timed out but was stuck in the page where I seen various messages he had sent too different women I’ve tried investigating as much as I can into this site and what this and that means but too one particular girl he has said massage please then a bit further a message saying booking and then a couple more dozen feedback.. I have obvs confronted him and after a while managed too her out of him he had just been looking and admitted too making s booking but couldn’t “actually” go through with it.. I don’t believe him of course and I’ve said how do you explain the message feedback I assume asking for feedback surely there wouldn’t be a message asking for feedback if nothing happened right.. he abolsutmey trying too bare face lie too me I’m 5 months pregnant with our second child and I feel sick too my stomach I know for a fact he’s met up with this girl but have no way too prove it like I said too him why would there be this feedback message then and he just says he don’t know I’ve split up with him and will be going too get checked out soon..

@JanieClay what a load of old sexist bollocks

Excusing cheating, promiscuity and using prostitutes by men because the poor wee petals have NEEEEEEDS. Whereas women must have a loving relationship to have sex?

And your theory about why men go to prostitutes and women don't...lol. It's because those men are lazy and it's easier and quicker to buy a woman than put the effort in to get free sex from a non sex worker. Women on the other hand have abundance of free dick available, and would never need or want to pay for it.

Can you point out where I've excused this and agreed that it's ok before accusing me of being sexist?

You've pointed out yourself that ''free dick is in abundance'', which only underpins what I've said.

You can't have it both ways.

This thread reminded me of male friend of mine tried to set himself up as a male escort after seeing a documentary about men getting paid for sex by women in LA. He offered himself up on Craigslist and a few other sites, sexy pictures and all. No interest from women. Not one. He got interest from men but he didn't want them. He was so disappointed.

Many women in the sex industry aren't willing participants and there's no guaranteed way for men to know. That's my only issue with the industry.

I have a female profile on adultwork.

I do a number of things the main one being PHONE CHAT, I do it because I can make far more than other phone chat lines. I also do text messaging and if a guy is daft enough, will flog him dirty tights, toe nail clippings etc for £20.

Other girls do web-cam work, some sell photos, make videos, and some do escorting.

So you cannot assume that a guy is on there just to see an escort.

Adultwork takes the money and passes it to me, after deducting a pretty hefty percentage commission.

For legal reasons they cannot do this for escorting work. (I'm sure they would love to take a cut though) Any escorting jobs, mean the guy hands cash to the woman on arrival, so if you're husband has been paying money to adultwork, it could be for ANYTHING BUT visiting an escort.

Did you note the names of the ladies your DH has communicated with. AW offers servuces such as personal cam appointments etc, where the girls(or boys) do their thing to the camera for you. You will be adked to review for this for example.
There are dominatrixes working throughbtheveireci can think of who offer no sexual contact at all but offer a service which can be reviewed
Often written reviews are listed. By viewing the escort you can see what she was about.

Sorry OP, ive hijacked your thread a bit in response to some of the commenters.

OP if you wasn't to message me I can try to help with some of the details of adult work if it helps

Being involved in a business where I meet sex workers all the time I think an awful lot of peiple would have their opinions seriously challenged meeting these individuals.
I find the whole male exploitation debate tiresome ( and whilst in cases of pimping and drug addiction or traficking) as it is generally very far from the truth.
I regularly meet incredibly smart, astute women who are in fact exploiting men in ridiculous ways for monetary gain. University students have earnt themselves multiple properties and are well adjusted balanced people. Many have given up high power careers in law and the like to take up escorting.
There are many women who love sex, and who love money. For them they see it as an obvious way to make a really good living. I know of not one person who has got into trouble with a client in my experience. I do meet s lot of ladies earning well over 100k a year for not a huge amount of time, all of whom are contributing fully to this country's taxes.
Please don't keep telling me women are victims of men without getting out there and meeting a lot of them on a non judgemental level first