I feel a fool
Please someone answer as honestly as possible
My ex was obsessed with cuckholding and this is one of the reasons we split up :
Long story short, we've been on/off together 15 years, around 2015ish he out of the blue mentioned he wanted to see another man have sex with me, he was drunk at the time so I thought he was saying it on purpose to see what I'd say as he's also very paranoid, controlling and jealous but every few days he would ask for it! Not just once, very persuasive, would go on a site and start talking to men to come round and shag me!
It got so scary at one point when one time I said I was going to bed and he replied well you'll be waking up with someone on top of you and it won't be me"
Was very freaked out but I finally told a support worker and a friend after being very embarrassed and closed about this
Weirdly, my friend said this was normal and it goes on it loads off marriages and relationships!!!
She made out I was being a prude! And actually turned it into a joke saying she wished her husband had offered it
I felt ill and shocked is this true? Was I being unreasonable?
Please can someone tell me if what he did was not right ?