OMG totally freaked about tonight's date!

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With my neighbour 🙈

I just don't know what box to put it in, we're both single, I met his ex girlfriend (just hello)
I know where he lives and that he has 2 children

Apart from that I don't know whether he sees this as a date, or a friendly neighbour thing or a sex thing!
I don't know how old he is
Or what his likes and dislikes are

I'm so out of my comfort zone
Please help me relax and breathe

Oooh exciting!!!! How did this come about? And is he hot?! Good luck! Where are you going? What are you wearing?!

As per gin's post

Aaarrrrggghhhhh 😬 noo help me!

Yes he's hot, I've letched over him for months
We're going to the local, it's lovely

We were talking on the drive and he said he'd split with gf
So I put a note through his door with my number saying 'if you fancy a drink'
He text me that night and said he'd love to

But it's like a total blind date.

He's asked if I want to go round to his to wait for taxi etc and I just don't know what I'm doing lol
I told him to book a taxi and I'll see him outside

ah that is definitely date territory! you'll be fine. deep breath and be yourself!

Does he live with his GF?

Even more exciting!!! Especially if you have been appreciating him for a while! Go and have fun and get to know him and obviously keep us posted. When are you off out?

Eeee, exciting! Nice work with the number through the letterbox btw.

Oooh, sounds exciting (though also a total nightmare if either of you try and ghost or move on).

Exciting!! When do you go?
Please update us on how it goes!!

Oohhh exciting. Good for you, enjoy.

About 7.30 I think

Do I treat it as a date then?

No doesn't live with gf
He's moving out next month so even if it goes tits up it should be ok

Im thinking date! Have fun OP!

I'm used the OLD (although I've given that up now after 3 recent disasters)

So normally I'd know age, likes & dislikes, job etc
I feel like I know nothing and it's terrifying

Do I pop round for a quick beer first?

Ah, but this time... you know where he lives.

Yeah, I'd go round for a beer, but then again I like beer!

Well this is very exciting for a Tuesday!

🤣🤣 I know!!!!!

My neighbour (single Dad with full custody) asked me to go to a retirement party with him. I didn't know what as....friend I guessed, slightly disappointed.

Fast forward 16 years and we're soooooo very happily married!!

Coincidentally, my DM also married her neighbour after being widowed at 50.

Good luck, breathe, have fun!!!

Oh gosh how very exciting for a Tuesday!!
Good luck OP, I hope you have a lovely night.
Very smooth with the number in the letterbox too 😝

Ooh, looking forward to the updates.

This exact scenario happened to me 8 years ago. We have a 4 year old son now!

Well, almost exactly - messaged through OLD instead of the note through the door!

I’m impressed by your balls Can’t imagine ever having any that let me post a note like that. Maybe if my neighbour wasn’t a walloper

My mum married our neighbour... ;)

Good luck! My DP was my neighbour. I moved to his after 4 months and we've been together 5 years (and a toddler) now! Your thread brings back memories, all the same questions before the first date