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OMG totally freaked about tonight's date!

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MozzchopsThirty · 10/04/2018 17:50

With my neighbour 🙈

I just don't know what box to put it in, we're both single, I met his ex girlfriend (just hello)
I know where he lives Grinand that he has 2 children

Apart from that I don't know whether he sees this as a date, or a friendly neighbour thing or a sex thing!
I don't know how old he is
Or what his likes and dislikes are

I'm so out of my comfort zone
Please help me relax and breathe

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MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 09:38

No regrets
He text me earlier and asked if I had any regrets

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MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 09:39

I don't feel exciting this morning I can tell you!

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MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 09:42

And he wants me to go round now! 😱

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Horsemad · 11/04/2018 09:44
Grin
letsdolunch321 · 11/04/2018 09:46

He was obviously impressed by you wanting to spend more time with you Grin

MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 09:49

Hmm Hmm

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EatWorms · 11/04/2018 09:53

Good first date then!

QuiteLikely5 · 11/04/2018 09:57

He wants you to go now?! Did you dtd? Maybe he wants more action

SleepingStandingUp · 11/04/2018 09:58

Go be hungover and tired together. Or he wants help with the kids hahah

SleepFreeZone · 11/04/2018 10:04

Least he text!!! 😬

Onecutefox · 11/04/2018 10:06

It doesn't sound like a date.

LimonViola · 11/04/2018 10:10

Hmm I wouldn't go round now!

Take some time to rest up, recuperate from the hangover and then organise another date. Don't fall into the just going next door cos it's easy trap so early on! Enjoy the intrigue and lovely dates for a bit first :)

JesusTapdancingChrist · 11/04/2018 10:15

I don't want to be the sole voice of doom and gloom but I'd be careful with this one Mozz.

Given that you've done all the running so far, he might see the situation as a chance for a few low effort shags before he moves away.

I could be totally wrong of course but I would just say take your time and be careful. I've read your other dating threads and you could probably do without another messy relationship

thisismadness77 · 11/04/2018 10:25

I wouldn’t be going round. Another date sounds like it would be good though.

QuiteLikely5 · 11/04/2018 10:53

Mozzy is missing

I wonder where she could be Wink

WellThisIsShit · 11/04/2018 10:54

Yay! Glad it went well last night

Zaccheryquack · 11/04/2018 10:55

Awww - I think you should go round!! He sounds nice.

user1487175389 · 11/04/2018 10:56

I'm not getting the 'likes and dislikes' thing. Surely the point of a first date is to have a conversation and find those things out? Or are you just having a panic?

MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 11:05

Yes 'it's true I am a dating disaster
And I continue to repeat my mistakes

I'm not under any illusion that this could be a relationship, and I really don't want one right now
So it's a bit of fun for both of us

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lonelyatchristmas · 11/04/2018 11:19

We are all entitled to a bit of fun.... enjoy it....

MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 11:30

I will Smile thank you

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Orlandointhewilderness · 11/04/2018 12:54

I don't think that is anything to worry about - pretty much all of my relationships started like this! minus the brave note of course lol.

CuriousMama · 11/04/2018 14:03

Are you going round?

DaffodilPower · 11/04/2018 14:09

Did you go round?!

MozzchopsThirty · 11/04/2018 16:05

I did
We just kissed in bed for 10 mins then I went to work

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