OMG totally freaked about tonight's date!

[MozzchopsThirty]

With my neighbour 🙈

I just don't know what box to put it in, we're both single, I met his ex girlfriend (just hello)
I know where he lives and that he has 2 children

Apart from that I don't know whether he sees this as a date, or a friendly neighbour thing or a sex thing!
I don't know how old he is
Or what his likes and dislikes are

I'm so out of my comfort zone
Please help me relax and breathe

Did you dtd yesterday or just snogging, we need to know??? Well, I do because I'm a nosy cow

Just kissed? In bed? Wow you have some self control!

Is it just me or has that moved quick?!

Noooo I'll be judged!!!

Who are any of us to judge... it's your life.. life it to the fullest... what ever makes you happy go with it..

You wrote this earlier Mozzchops re your own self :-

"Yes 'it's true I am a dating disaster
And I continue to repeat my mistakes"

I would listen to the song "Bad at Love" by Halsey as that could resonate with you.

Seriously though why do you keep on putting yourself through this still without seemingly working out or even on why you keep making the same types of relationship errors?. I do think your parents, particularly your mother whom I have read about on here, are also to blame. Look too at what they taught you about relationships when growing up.

"I'm not under any illusion that this could be a relationship, and I really don't want one right now
So it's a bit of fun for both of us"

That bit of fun could well turn around and simply become the latest in a long line of your dating disasters. It does not bode well already.

Hashtag bit stalkery

@AttilaTheMeerkat wooooahhh judge much?

Ffs you're snogging in bed with some hottie and I'm running for the train?

Well atleast he's moving so it won't be awkward when it doesn't work out.

I think if you're going to ask for advice on here then prepared to be judged

I wasn't judging by saying has it moved quick I just think it is that's all

But it's your life and yes a bit of fun providing it doesn't turn sour which there is always a chance it might

Where is he moving to ? Can't see if you answered it
Sorry if you have I may have missed it

No rainbow duck, not judging at all.

Fuck the pearl clutchers, they haven't been ridden in years.

EnJoy!

salt

@SaltAndVinegar - 😂

MozzchopsThirty just read the thread. How bloody exciting! I loved that feeling of the first date, kiss etc...I got through a few before meeting the one. Fun going through them though

Jesus, Mozzy, I hope you know that in the face of some of the comments on here that the only person who's opinion of you that counts is your own. And that you deserve happiness. And that you have a right to find your own path, to enjoy your own successes and failures, and to always defend your right to like yourself whatever choices you make in life.

Sorry to get heavy on you there! But a person can't live their life through the good advice of others. Infact the best advice is always the advice that encourages and supports you in finding your own way. Good advice may ask you to look at yourself and decide if you are happy with the person you find yourself to be, but it never asks you to be unhappy with yourself when you know in your heart you're doing your best.

So good luck in your relationship endeavours, and do bloody well enjoy them! It's your life to look back on

Go for it op, when I met a man who did indeed turn out to be a neighbour we married and have a toddler. A relationship was also the last thing on my mind that night. I had only binned exh 5 months earlier!!

You enjoy yourself. I've had a fair few disastrous relationships but been with dh 10 years now. I was married before too.

Life's full of lessons. Be boring without them.

:)
So...you two having dinner tonight?

No they are skipping straight to dessert!!

Exactly. I married my bit of fun. 15 mostly happy years later we are still having desert most nights!

@ 8SaltAndvinegar 😂

@RatRolyPoly what a fab post thank you, I did feel a bit down on myself earlier after reading some posts but you've turned that around

You're absolutely right, I am an adult and if I want to shag every man I meet then I can, as long as it's my choice and I'm happy with it.
The difference here compared to the last 3 serial shaggers is that they pretended to want a relationship and I felt terribly let down.
This is a bit of fun, we've both said we don't want a relationship so it is what it is
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Saltandvinegar* your post was hilarious and again made me think 'so what'

Not seeing him tonight, he has his children and I've been out for dinner with my best friend

Then tomorrow I'm staying overnight in another city with my gay best friend ready for nipple surgery on Friday!!!!

It's been a great week