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Cant get my ex to talk to me

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 21:58

Hi i got dumped by tx last night i have txed my ex once but he hasnt replied i have some of his stuff at my house but dont know what to do with it x

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dirtybadger · 07/02/2018 21:59

If he hasnt replied in a couple of weeks bin it. Onwards and upwards

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:00

Can i do that seeing as its not mine x

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wilts09 · 07/02/2018 22:02

Yes he's being ignorant. Can't care that much about stuff

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:03

I dont no why he even dump me been together four years

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wilts09 · 07/02/2018 22:06

Plenty more fish in the sea as the saying goes. Enjoy being single and don't dwell 💐💐💐

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:09

I will try not but one big thing could be a problem x

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wilts09 · 07/02/2018 22:10

Hope you solve it x

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:12

I dont know if i can i think im pregnant i brought a test yesterday but havnt taken it yet x

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Namethecat · 07/02/2018 22:12

Send him a letter by registered post giving him a set date to collect by. Inform him that anything not collected after that date will be donated to a charity shop.

wilts09 · 07/02/2018 22:13

Oh well this escalated. Do the test in the morning, and I hope you get the result you are hoping for whatever that may be x

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:13

Thank you i didnt think of doing that

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Charismam · 07/02/2018 22:14

I suppose because he knows that it's an excuse to talk to him.

Afterall, it's HIS stuff. If he wanted it back he'd talk to you.

I guess he left you shocked and confused and needing answers. It's a really really shit place to be. You will begin to care less and less what the answers are though. Then you'll forget the questions.

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:14

Im scared to find out x

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:14

Very shit thing to do

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mtpaektu · 07/02/2018 22:17

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Dancingfairy · 07/02/2018 22:17

It's definitely an excuse to talk to him. Ex has got loads of stuff at my house. He hasn't asked for it and I haven't told him about. Not thrown it out either as I'm not bothered by it so he probably knows it just an excuse. Hopefully your not pregnant.

Armygirl · 07/02/2018 22:19

Does he know you might be pregnant? After 4 years to dump you by text and totally out of the blue is really awful of him!

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:20

I think i am i feel like i did with my other 3 x

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:20

I havnt told him i was gonna find out first

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Dancingfairy · 07/02/2018 22:27

Are the other 3 his? And yes best to find out first

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:28

No they are from my previous ex

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Dancingfairy · 07/02/2018 22:34

Oh was gonna say awful he is not speaking to you if you have kids together. Did he even explain anything in the text as to why he was ending it?

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:37

No just said he couldnt do it anymore tho he be strange for the last month

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:38

Been not be

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Icepink39 · 07/02/2018 22:55

Ive taken my pregnancy test now got to wait

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