Hey guys this is my first post here I really just need some advice.
So I've been with my OH for 4 years I had a daughter before we met and we have a little girl together. He is a great dad i cannot fault him on that, in the past he has not been honest with me about money but we are working on that. A few months ago I was sending an important email for him and came across 2 rather private photos of one of his female friends, when I asked him about them he told me that one of his other friends has been sleeping with her and sent him these photos so he put them in his email so he could confront her with them (She is married and has 2 kids) he admits he was stupid to do that and to not mention to me about it when he found out but the problem is now I don't know what to believe and I can't face being around his friend as she's either 1 having an affair with my OH or she's having an affair with someone else. It's really starting to get me down and if I try talk to him about it I know he will ask why I'm brining it back up again. I should also add he says he said about it to her and she replied well my husband does it to me so why shouldn't I do it to him.
Appreciate any input I feel rather lost with it all
Thank you for reading :)