So, I have started dating this new guy (from OkCupid) and in a nutshell, he is lovely! Genuinely, decent guy, from what I believe so far.
My only concern is that I have a few niggles but don't know whether it is just me being far too picky (I'm 34, so probably can't be too fussy nowadays!)
Please don't shoot me down for these, but I'm hoping for others' opinions...
- He has a 'gay' sounding voice
He's definitely not gay! And it's not camp, so to speak, but just, gay 
- Ok, so he has a mortgage, his 2 kids live with him etc., but....I get the impression he may be a bit tight. He suggested we get the train home after our planned date this evening as opposed to a taxi (I would NOT be taking the train so late at night) and told me he'd rather take me to bars where the drinks aren't extortionately expensive as he is trying to save atm
- Ok, I mentioned on another thread about him not being a driver, but think I may actually be able to overlook this now.
Is it me being too damn fussy? I really do think he may be one of the few good ones....