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To get rid of my fwb of 4 years.

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HowamIgoingtocope · 03/04/2017 05:58

You can judge if you like frankly I don't care. I've had a fwb for 4 years. He disappears for months then comes back. I know he's probly in a relationship somewhere but I'm single and frankly I don't give a stuff.

Any hoo. He blocked me on fb. First time ever. Kind of stumped me. So I go looking and it seems I'm also blocked on wattsapp. Cue psycho woman . I've blocked him on everything. Okay I feel crap now. We connected sexually but emotionally not so much. Maybe I just have to high a sex drive to care. But I would rather not be broken for a second time

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SparklingRaspberry · 04/04/2017 17:23

music you do realise the OP hasn't messed with another woman's life, dont you? If this guy does have a girlfriend/wife then HE is the one who's messed her around not the OP.
How old fashioned of you for blaming the woman and not the cheating lying dickhead of a man.

Believe it or not but in 2017, plenty people have a FWB - it doesn't mean either one of them is desperate. Or a slut (which by the way, grow up! Slut shaming - how mature of you).

I really do suggest you bring yourself up to date with the times and realise women can have sex with someone who isn't their husband.

And you think that sex is the only reason why men stay/get in relationships? Grin oh god I'm embarrassed for you Blush

Priorityseat · 04/04/2017 17:25

Music you sound like a complete nutcase.

HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 17:36

Oh and I'm no slut. I've had plenty of offers and could find anot her man like that. But you know what I chose not too. I get tested regularly and use protection when I am with someone . So take your arcaic opinions and toddle off back to your cave.

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Arealhumanbeing · 04/04/2017 18:08

Slut = No such thing really.

Just a another nasty little word only ever used in relation to women's behavior.

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 20:21

How about we all step away from GFs? Let's focus on supporting our sister...

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 20:23

But (sorry, been in meetings all day; just now catching up) just before the embargo descends, here's my tuppen'orth:

because I have a moral compass
Whuch is pointed due Judgey Asshole

... and I'm not a cunt
Couldn't be more true: s/he has neither warmth nor depth.

Aaaaahhhhhh. That felt good.

HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 20:36

Haha. I'm good girls. She's right though I felt a loss for all of three hours. I had cake and a brew and cried and swore , I fartEd and went about my day. I shall move on. Just have fun funding the next honored candidate.
Can't believe she said I was crap in the sack. I'm gooooood. Hahahaha

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BlondeBecky1983 · 04/04/2017 20:37

You're well rid OP and deserve better xx

Arealhumanbeing · 04/04/2017 20:42

'I farted and went about my day*

GrinGrinGrin

You sound strong, OP. You're very good at the not wallowing. Have a wonderful time with the next one.

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 20:47

What kind of cake?!? What kind of brew?!?

Sheesh, the public need to know these things. >taps foot impatiently

HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 20:47

Oh I will do I'll be busy being shifted in bed. Actually getting g some and not having to cope with the seat being left up . ( that's a lie my son does it but I have a fab soft close seat so he doesn't wake me up slamming it) I must remember to pl make sure my dress rea he's my ankles to show myself respect.
Narrow sod that I've worked hard for this body I'll dress as lamb with frilly bits on. Awwooooooga.

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PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 20:49

I farted and went about my day

And there's the T-shirt. Grin

HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 20:50

Carrot cake and a posh coffee from my tassimo machine. I'm too stingy to go to Costa.

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PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 20:58

Hey, I've got a vacu-press. Tassimo machine? Looxureehh!

--also, mine's greener >smug-icon

HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 21:01

What's that. Google wasn't my freind.

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PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 21:04

It's like a cafetiere, but smaller and better. Will see if I can find you the info. I think Lakeland used to sell them...

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 21:09

This.

To get rid of my fwb of 4 years.
HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 21:09

Ahh right. One you put on the stove that makes the bok bok bok filter coffee noises.

No.hehe

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HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 21:10

Oh that is posh looks like a cheese grater.
God I need sleep.

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PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 04/04/2017 21:16

No! Just boiling water (like making a tea), flip over and press through a filter into a cup.

An absolute lifesaver in offices where the alternative was - gasp, shock-horror, judgey-pants - instant >boak

Nipplesunited · 04/04/2017 21:18

I think you should remind yourself of him doing this multiple times from now on. If he was a real friend with benefits he would have had enough respect to inform you.

Im sure if roles were reversed you would have the decency to let him know.
That alone should be enough to keep you away.

Block him, and keep him blocked and dont look back.

HowamIgoingtocope · 04/04/2017 21:20

Oh are we back to the thread. Cough nice filter coffee thingy. I may have to get one.
No worry so nippless (sniggers) I'm good.

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