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When do you stop looking?

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gladiatorix · 22/03/2017 22:14

BF cheated on me. We don't live together and have been in a relationship for nearly a year. I knew the minute I walked in the door after returning from a work trip that he had done this. I asked pointed subtle questions that he rebuffed with ease. But I knew. I got up in the middle of the night and drove home. The next day he confessed.

I was shocked, but probably not surprised. He has said and done all the right things, but each time I come into the house, I'm looking. Examining. Questioning. Doubting.

When does that ease off? I'm in danger of driving myself mad

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gladiatorix · 23/03/2017 23:26

Any I have no words

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AnyFucker · 24/03/2017 02:47
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DownTownAbbey · 24/03/2017 06:14

Well he's a prince, isn't he? " Give up your career or I'll screw around."

Do not give up your career or independence for anyone!

I think you need to be single for a good long while and learn your worth as a strong woman who doesn't want or need any man, especially such a distasteful specimen.

Msqueen33 · 24/03/2017 06:19

You're not at fault! I wouldn't want to put myself through this stress for a man I'd be with only a year who had already cheated on me. He's perfectly able not to fuck around it's called self control.

Please you've just gotten yourself independent again throw it away on this man.

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