How many people are married to/still with their "first"

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After reading the did you use a condom thread and seeing a few wedding nights etc it got me wondering....

How many people are still together with the first person they slept with (and I do mean the first one by choice for all those with such stories)?

Well, my dh married his first and he's still with her!

Ditto.

At least ditto to 3rdtriMOSSter .

Me!

Shagged him on the first night (met at a friend's party) and are still together over 17 years later - has not always been easy - but is anything?

Oops - appear to have killed the thread.

Sorry

My Mum has only ever had sex with my Dad (waited till wedding night)

Tbh, this kind of freaks me out. I am so glad I sowed my wild oats before meeting dh.

Do you lot ever wonder what sex is like with somone else?

not a chance!

Forgot to say that I married my first too... (first? that should probably say only )

I'm happy with what I've got, so no, no wondering here.

I married my first too. We've been together 11 years so far, must be doing something right!

Northerner I couldn't care less what sex with someone else is like. It just isn't something I think about, as I am generally happy in that department (I say generally because we had a baby 5 months ago and no sex since, but it's only temporary IYSWIM). I can't imagine it being any good with someone who didn't know what you liked.

Maybe if I had sowed my oats too, I would feel differently.

yup - one night stand and we are still here 12 years later.

I know Hulababy is

I'm married to my first, and I was his first too (been together 20 years this May, but I was Very Young at the time, rather than being Exceedingly Old now) We, or should I say I had a bit of a rough spot when I was in my early 20's (living with his parents, not really going anywhere relationshipwise) and we were apart for 3 months so I took advantage of the situation to discover the grass wasn't any greener (just call me Ross!) From what DH has said he's never wanted to do that, so I still feel very shitty about it.

No certainly not! I married my 3rd, but had a few inbetween before going back to him!!

Yes he is my one and only!
I am 25 and we had our ninth wedding anniversary on the 31st Jan this year.
We have been together since I was 13 and I am pg with baby no 5.
We have had our ups and downs (who doesn't) but can honestly say that at the moment I think things are the best they have ever been and I wouldn't change him for the world!

I am, we broke up for a while at one point but neither of us slept with anyone else so still each others one and only

me. didn't wait till the wedding night but he was still my first and only. Didn't sleep with him for 6 months though and although I wasn't his first he was prepared to wait iyswim. We've been together 11.5 years married for 7.5.

Northerner I don't think you can really wonder what it's like with someone else if you've never been with someone else in between iyswim. as in, I've never met anyone that I've wanted to have sex with so don't have "someone else" to wonder about

Me.

Good lord no.

He was a nice bloke, in his way, but...

very small willy.

Yes - I was a wedding night one too

We struggled a little to wait until we were married, but it was really worth it! A fantastic amazing night! We did it 3 times that night - I don't think we really believed it was real! We even came together the second time which I thought only happened in films TMI sorry!

We'll have been married 8 years this summer and I know we're more in love than ever. Never let the sun go down on an argument and all that si the way to do it I think.

me. i was wedding night too.

me!

He was my first and I was his, we met when I was 13 and have been married nearly 6 years.

He's not my only though - we had alot of break-ups before we finally settled down.

I was dh's first. He wasn't mine, which I regret.

No, but I think he may be somewhere like my 25th....