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Original poster

is he lying

70 replies

user1469380647 · 14/08/2016 01:49

I was looking for a phone number in ohs contacts and came across a uberhoney.
Didnt realize it was a dating site till i googled.
He flew at me and said it was a virus and he didnt put it in there and threatened to throw his phone so i couldnt accuse him of anything.
Does this sound suspicious or could the number have been added to his contacts without him doing it.

OP posts:
CannotEvenDeal · 14/08/2016 01:53

Sorry but I have never, ever heard of a rogue contact being added in this way Confused

Sativa · 14/08/2016 01:57

Sounds like a classic lie, sorry. Reminds me of my ex telling me about things just 'popping' up on his computer but I could clearly see from the search history that he'd typed them in.

CannotEvenDeal · 14/08/2016 01:58

Also, the angry response isn't helping... he would just laugh it off he had nothing to hide.

Seems bit defensive iyswim.Hmm

Doinmummy · 14/08/2016 01:59

Yep he's lying . Sorry Op . He threatened to throw his phone so you can't find any more evidence.

Sativa · 14/08/2016 02:00

Exactly ! Would you threaten to throw your phone away if you were innocent ?!

pinkyredrose · 14/08/2016 02:00

He's lying.

PurpleDaisies · 14/08/2016 02:01

He flew at me and said it was a virus and he didnt put it in there and threatened to throw his phone so i couldnt accuse him of anything.

That really doesn't sound like the reaction of someone who has nothing to hide.

Do you live together? Married/children?

CannotEvenDeal · 14/08/2016 02:02

Also please don't be offended but how fucking brazen is he to add it under its real name like that. Almost like he wanted you to see it in some messed up way Flowers

FreeFromHarm · 14/08/2016 02:08

The anger is your answer , hope you are ok ?💐

Doinmummy · 14/08/2016 02:11

Next thing he'll say is he downloaded it for a mate Hmm

FreeFromHarm · 14/08/2016 02:12

My xh to a tee doin !!!

Doinmummy · 14/08/2016 02:22

The fact that they think you believe their lies is almost as galling as the lies themselves.

twittwooery · 14/08/2016 02:22

I haven't seen anything like that since before IPhones I'm sure it could happen, but more with rooted/jail rocket phones which most don't do, I could believe it ( but being very skeptical) the lunging would make me think he was guilty though tbh.

What I do t get the contact was called "über honey" how did you get the dating website fro, that, or was that the website? If he's forgetful he could have saved his account details under the contact info

Just5minswithDacre · 14/08/2016 02:24

The anger is your answer

This on its own, but also, no, viruses don't add contacts.

Sorry Sad

BlueFolly · 14/08/2016 02:25

If he was innocent he'd be all like 'do what? [confunsed] let me have a look at that. Weird. Must be a virus or summat.' Non story.

Freaking out? I'd say he's a very bad lier.

Original poster
user1469380647 · 14/08/2016 02:28

Now his asking where he can get a lie detector done.

OP posts:
BlueFolly · 14/08/2016 02:31

What a fucking idiot.

FastWindow · 14/08/2016 02:34

Jeremy Kyle does a great line in this kind of thing.

He's.

Doinmummy · 14/08/2016 02:37

Asking for a lie detector test safe in the knowledge that he won't have one.

FreeFromHarm · 14/08/2016 02:37

Hope you are safe, what are you going to do ? Really weird my Xh husband asked for a lie detector.... What a idjit !!

Doinmummy · 14/08/2016 02:38

They all read from the same script .

FreeFromHarm · 14/08/2016 02:39

Yep , they do, I was so gullible... Never again

BitOutOfPractice · 14/08/2016 02:42

Yes. He's lying.

Doinmummy · 14/08/2016 02:42

The stupid bastatds don't realise that someone got hold of a copy of the script, photocopied it and dished it out to MNetters.

BlueFolly · 14/08/2016 02:42

God it would be so tempting to call his bluff and sort one out for him.