is he lying

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I was looking for a phone number in ohs contacts and came across a uberhoney.
Didnt realize it was a dating site till i googled.
He flew at me and said it was a virus and he didnt put it in there and threatened to throw his phone so i couldnt accuse him of anything.
Does this sound suspicious or could the number have been added to his contacts without him doing it.

Yes as shipwrecked said it's beyond reasonable doubt.

But you don't have to 'prove' anything anyway. It's not a court of law. That you are unhappy within a relationship and/or the person is untrustworthy is reason enough to leave:

Op , it sounds as if you have more problems with this arsehole than just this one incident. He's an abusive liar, you deserve better.

Is 'Uberhoney' a contact or an app here?

Ok, it looks more like a problem of how do you leave him, than whether he's telling the truth.

What do you need to leave?

Surely when you are upset is the time you need your support group more than ever. Don't cut yourself off from the support available to you. You need it.

Absolutely, Pam.

You need to step away from the idea that you need to prove anything at all and, as Lweji says! focus on how you leave him.

Liar

Ha! As if the initial outburst wasn't sign enough that he was lying, the asking for a lie detector test has just put the nail in the coffin!!!!! Classic line by a lying knobhead!!! What does he take you for????

If this was Jeremy Kyle (and he'd fit right in,by the sounds of it), he'd be one of those who demand a lie detector test and then, when caught out, says it's wrong.

Sounds like he synced his phone with his contacts from elsewhere - email probably. I've done this before by accident and ended up with loads of contacts I don't recognise (mine usually turn out to be recruitment consultants from years ago tho!)

But if that is the case, he must have had an email from that contact at some point - when he signed up maybe???

Yes he is lying.

He's lying - badly. Also, please be aware you could be prosecuted and have your blue badge taken off you if he misused it fraudulently.

you were all right accessed the emails and found all sorts teen porn, mums to you know what in this area, swingers sites in this area his trying to deny and say hackers have done it and threw his phone and that im upsetting my dd.
told him im getting a divorce so now im getting suppose your throwing me out the house and going to tell your mum.
Does anyone know where i download divorce papers from please.

You can easily download divorce papers, but he has to agree to it.
Look up divorce and the different options.
Make sure you don't need legal advice. It might be advisable anyway.

The directgov have all the forms, sorry that you are going through this to, you are making the right decision for you and your dd

Yes, sorry I was on my phone earlier and not so easy.

Check here www.gov.uk/divorce/overview

What a shit he is... buy you already knew that.
Yes kick him out and yes tell your mum.
Does he have a job?
Property?
Any assets?
A pension?

And still he tries to deflect the blame to you! What a total jerk

Yes, kick him out!

He's guilty as anything and has now been busted much to his annoyance.

You can always cite what you've found as 'unreasonable behaviour' as a reason, but from the sound of him he'll deny until his last breath.

You need to see a lawyer.