Think i am beingcheated on

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This evening driving back from the seaside in my bf car a weird thing happened he has a i phone and must have had it connrcted to the bluetooth on his car anyway a name flashed up on his car bluetooth dashboard it said dawns i phone
He doesnt know a dawn neither would he have it on his phone unless hes cheating i pretended i never saw but inside i was shocked ive not mentioned anything but ive got a feeling hes cheating i cant get into his phone im a technophobe and hes properly got her name filed under some app were going through a really bad time and i was thinking of asking him to leave anyway so wouldnt be surprised if he was cheating what to do now if i ask he will deny it

Why would you think he was cheating just because he knows a Dawn?
I'm not sure I understand.

Not much to go on, Is it?
Have you asked him about who Dawn is?

No he def does not know a dawn
So why would he have her connected to his bluetooth
He never reacted

No he def does not know a dawn

I don't know the names of every person my husband knows, and vice versa.

How can you be so sure he doesn't know anyone called Dawn?

He clearly does know a Dawn though, doesn't he. But it does seem to be a bit of a leap from there being someone he has a contact number for that you don't know to he is definitely having an affair.

Has he given you any other reason to believe that he's cheated?

He works with men all day and never goes anywhere ie out socialising
He doesnt have dawn as a facebook friend either
Caught him on a website before talking and sexting woman

Just ask him ?

I looked through his tel numbers
He has his phone locked too and brings the phone to the toilet and to the bath

He works with men all day and never goes anywhere ie out socialising

That kind of limits his options for an affair, then.

"He works with men all day and never goes anywhere ie out socialising"

So where did he meet Dawn and how is he having an affair with her? You can't insist that he can't possibly have a friend called Dawn whilst simultaneously insisting he's having an affair with her.

Anyway. Talk to him.

I think you have bigger problems than 'Dawn' tbh.
Does your relationship make your feel happy and does it add to your life, or do you feel insecure and anxious?
Did you ask him about Dawn?

Getting a phone call = cheating? That's a massive leap.

How did you look through his phone numbers if you can't get into his phone and he keeps it locked?

I don't think this sounds like a very good or healthy relationship.

So when it said "dawn's iPhone" that wasn't a call coming through? Or was it the bluetooth connecting to his iPhone. Could it be that one of his mates changed the name of his phone for a 'laugh'?

I think he might be chatting to a women online and has her number not a full blown affair but still cheating in my book if hes online searching for women

Bluetooth connected to his i phone i think ?

What do YOU want to do?
We can't tell you how to lead your life.

Massive leap.

No hes only got 1 friend he hears from very rarely the only people that ring are people selling stuff
Been with him 4 yrs

I looked through his numbers about 2 months ago when he handed me his phone. To make a call

If it was a bluetooth connection trying to connect to his phone, then "Dawn'" was in a car near you. So unless she is stalking you, it was a random bluetooth connection from a passing vehicle. It happens.