Sensual Sex

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After a lifetime without this a man has come into my life who is sensual. Do you have a sensual partner?

Are they are a rare breed? I am rather taken

but i like dh AND my toys

I don't like toys, I like men (am I wierd)?

Or should that be weird? Or wired?

why no toys, they are good fun with or without a man.

why no toys, they are good fun with or without a man.

Oh I don't mind them, I just don't think they're as much fun as men. (Well some men, obv!)

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thats awful dior, go out 2morrow to ann summers and buy every toy you can find, that will make him feel inferior(and tell him after you got them on his credit card)

How rude and unkind he is Dior!! There is nowt wrong with being a size 14 unless he doesn't like you being slimmer than the national average.. (16!)

You ought to tell him that you aren't keen on his size either, and looking pointedly towards his thing!

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thats bloody shocking dior, you know what exh said to me years ago, so i guess my reaction is no surprise

i am refraining from making comments about toys and my oh.....

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I think that's why I prefer men. The physicality, kisses, touch. You don't get that with toys.

I couldn't tolerate being with a man and not having it regular though, Dior. (It's different when you're single because you don't expect it and you're used to it not being part of your life)

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he told me i was too fat and didnt do it for him anymore

i was a size 12 and had 4 kids the youngest was less than a year and 3 of them were under 5

beginning of the end for me it was, especially when he said i was being a drama queen and overreacting when i got upset

Dior, its probably not the ADs that have stopped you caring.. it more likely that his comments have turned you off and you have put up a wall to stop you feeling (mainly hurt!). You seem like a very caring person; if the ADs stopped you caring, you wouldn't care about anyone or anything and that obviously isn't the case.

Have you thought about getting out of the marriage? (Sorry for asking!) You clearly deserve so much more than this, sex aside.

I do think that some men are more sensual lovers than others.

Possibly in general woman are also more sensual creatures than men. "Testosterone" sounds a bit less sensual than "oestrogen" - even the very word! Not to say that sensual men have less testosterone. Just applied in different ways.

We all have our moods - I agree. But - some ways of communication will be stronger in us than the others - and closer to our spirit and soul. Surely this will show in our love -making?

I think there has to be a meaningful connexion - at some level - between two people in order to get to the "sensual" bit though??

Anybodies man into Tantra?? That must be sensuality to the max! Sadly I have only got as far as reading about it...

Sting puts me off the very idea.

He has given it such a bad reputation.

Isn't tthis what falling in love is all about.

DP was very sensual before we had a baby

OH, hi Cali! Where you been??

She has been too busy Blair-Bashing to think about sex MT!

Is Sting into tantra then?? He doesn't exactly float my boat but I find the older version somewhat... intriguing.

Yes apparantly he and Trudi do it for 15 hours at a time... poor suffering woman.

Yes i've mostly been blair bashing adn galaxy radio bashing today