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How often do you have sex?

96 replies

angelinaj · 05/01/2007 21:35

Just curious to see if i am normal or not. No details required

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SmileysPeople · 06/01/2007 17:51

Wow.
How long have you been together?
(Obviously I'm hoping you'll say 3weeks)

fireflyfairy2 · 06/01/2007 17:55

Depends. Sometimes no times a week one week then the following week when I am ovulating the poor man needs to beat me off with a big stick

I am OV'ing at the minute He's in luck tonight

TMI?

juicychops · 06/01/2007 17:58

smileyspeople been together a year on Monday

We just both have high sex drives. hopefully it will last a long time!!

SmileysPeople · 06/01/2007 18:02

Oh one year is still in the realms of first flush stage.

But I'm sure it WILL last for you .

WE should probably ask people to qualify thir answers on here by also stating how long they've been together and how recently they had a baby (and if that baby was together also probably releavnt).

multitasker · 06/01/2007 18:29

Probably 2-3 times a week, but if ovulating well hello daddy. We've been together nearly 20 years and the youngest of our 3dc is 3.
I do keep reminding dh that it is most definitely a case of quality not quantity

Judy1234 · 06/01/2007 18:41

When I was married and when we weren't exhausted with babies about 2 or 3 times most but not all weeks and it's hard to remember over 19 years. I think that would be average but may be once a week. Not sure. We both orgasmed either every day or every 2 or 3 days though so that's a separate issue. It's both getting to be free at the same time that is the problem. Also depends how you define sex.

IntergalacticWalrus · 06/01/2007 18:51

what's sex?

welshboris · 06/01/2007 18:52

Dont usually post on these saucy threads but

With Rhubarb my lesbian lover at least once a month.

ginnedupmummy · 06/01/2007 19:09

Message withdrawn

marymillington · 06/01/2007 19:10

at least annually

NOELallie · 06/01/2007 19:22

LOL MaryM!

That is probably essential to make sure things are still in working order. We get the central heating system services annually too >

IamBlossom · 06/01/2007 20:01

was that annually or anally? that's a whole other thread...

sorry, poor taste, couldn't resist...

About once a week, or DH gets twitchy...always enjoy it once we get going...

Been together 16 years, had second son 5 months ago....

Glassofwine · 06/01/2007 20:11

totally varies ie. if we are stressed, dh busy at work it might not happed for a couple of weeks, but then it could be every night. It is always great and tbh it's getting better we've be together for 9 years. The years when I was constantly pg (3 lo's in 3 years) where obviously a bit lacklustre in the sex dept, but now it's wow wow wow. Lucky me

Bucketsofdynomite · 08/01/2007 18:51

About once a week. Before we had kids it was about one every 4 days which suited us both fine, hoping to return to that one day. Longest we've gone without is about 3wks when we both had flu alternately. Even postnatally has been 2wks or less.

lou33 · 08/01/2007 18:55

fridays to sundays when he is working, as i only see him at weekends, if hes about longer then the extra days too, unless i am too sick like i have been this last week

scorpio1 · 08/01/2007 19:00

about 4 or 5 times a week-sometimes once in the morning and once in the evening on weekends! !

about once a week we have a 'special' session...goes for longer/toys/etc etc

Bucketsofdynomite · 08/01/2007 21:01

Sometimes I do wish we could have 'quickie' sex, would love to do all that 'love in an elevator' or silly places. DH is very well-endowed so it can take quite a while for me to warm up enough and then he is totally wiped out afterwards so finding time is a real issue for us.

Quootiepie · 08/01/2007 21:03

ummmm...... varies from twice a week (rare!) to once a month.

MissGolightly · 08/01/2007 21:08

Used to be 2-3 times a week, since DS's birth (8 months ago) has gone down to once or twice a week, sometimes less if we're both knackered. I think DP would like more tbh but then I think he'd want more even it we were doing it every day! I think it'll go back up when DS starts sleeping through and the nightfeeds stop, but the question is will that be before our 20th anniversary?

We've been together 13 years - not sure if that makes a difference.

wurlywurly · 08/01/2007 21:40

daily, 2-3 times if no kids at home, think we did it 8 times in a weekend.

wurlywurly · 08/01/2007 21:47

custardo how do you have the time or energy???

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