I am seeing someone who sees to act very cold and distant after every date.
We are only on date 8, but we are sleeping together and we are pretty close as we knew each other a little bit before.
What he does is acts very intense with me most of the time. Lots of texting, lots of calling and attention and all the nice things like a call to say goodnight and a desire to know what I am up to and all of that. I feel like a very high priority.
Then we have a date, and he is always dead keen to see me. He always can't wait and one the day of the date he's texting me a countdown. Dead keen basically.
Then every. single. time. Without fail. Absolutely always right after our dates for two or three days he is really distant!!!
The difference is really noticable.
This goes on for somewhere between two days and a week and then he goes back to normal like nothing happenned.
I know it's a new relaitonship and don't mind giving someone space but I do find it quite odd and also find he inconsistency irritating.
At first I actually thought I was being ghosted it was that diffrent. He acted totally distant after our first date to the point I thought I;d never see him again then a few day ago he told me that it was the best first date of his life and one of his best memories.
Can anyone shed any light?