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Partner making porn

83 replies

snetmums · 17/11/2015 15:05

Going to be a quick post but...

You've been with said partner for around eighteen months .

He is a hobbyist/amateur photographer.

You've discovered that he has in the past, and occasionally still does, photographs and participate in porn images. (Mostly POV, or camera obviously set up on tripod).

Your partner claims you shouldn't be upset, as it's just 'acting'. He is in his late forties, all women in photos appear to be in mid twenties.

How would you deal with this? My instinct is to get away asap, or am I being a 'prude' as has been implied?

OP posts:
Orangeanddemons · 18/11/2015 16:49

Most of the women approached him! Shock Where?!. Over the tills at Tesco? Down the corner shop? Random conversation in a pub? The mind boggles!

Twinklestein · 18/11/2015 21:36

Acting with his dick. Does he think you were born yesterday?

snetmums · 19/11/2015 16:31

Have moved all furniture around-no sign of a hidden camera thank god.

He is still maintaining that I should not be upset by this, that it is his hobby etc. Thinking back he is one of those people who can bring sex into every day to day conversation and constantly wanted it...he says he just has a v high sex drive but almost beginning to sound like an addict to me!

OP posts:
BitOutOfPractice · 19/11/2015 18:36

I wouldn't use the word addict.I'd use the words lying sleazeball

BastardGoDarkly · 19/11/2015 18:53

'Models' don't have sex for money, not even 'arty' sex, that's prostitute's, prostitute's have sex for money.

Fuck sake does he think you're thick?

Be out when the lying tosspot comes on Sunday.

Flowers for you op, nightmare eh?

Seeyounearertime · 19/11/2015 18:58

I'm thinking if a new hobby.
Fishing? Golf? Trainspotting? Ooh stamp collecting?
Nah.. I know....

I'll sleep with protitutes, sure my GF will be fine with it, its just a hobby after all.

Smh, tell him to get fucked, again real op

LynetteScavo · 19/11/2015 19:01

I would deal with it by dumping him.

Gabilan · 19/11/2015 22:06

If wanting a partner who isn't involved in porn is prudish, sign me up on the prude register and give me the badge and certificate too.

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