Sex - absolutely mortified!

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I am dying of shame. This is now the 2nd time this has happened to me. We were dtd, with enthusiasm & I got REALLY wet. A LOT. I mean bucket loads. I stopped midway to get a paper towel to mop up & noticed a tinge of colour - yellow I put it to the back of my mind & carried on but there was more! I'm absolutely dying, it was running out of me, despite my best efforts. He couldn't help but notice & asked me if I peed myself!!! Omg the shame. I didn't feel like I was peeing. I have a reasonably good pelvic floor. I can keep Ben Wa balls in all day without effort. What am I going to do? This can never happen again. We've been together for 6 months & I don't understand why this has started happening? I am mortified.

Female ejaculation?

Uti?
Go to the loo before dtd. See a doctor, you might have some nerve damage if you haven't any bladder sensation (as you say you didn't know you were peeing). Do you have the urge to wee during a normal day or do you just go out of habit?

This is female ejeculation otherwise known as squirting. The fluid is of similar composition to amniotic fluid.

Far more likely to be female ejaculation than piss. I'm surprised he wasn't turned on by it, most men are!

To the sex forum, where there's already a topic on this very subject!

Were you in a particular position when it happened? I think sometimes certain angles can make this happen more.

You should ask for this to me moved to the sex forum really.

I can't post in Sex because I'm on a new account since the hacking. Is it really true women leak something like amniotic fluid? That sounds nuts. I've never heard of it. If I had to guess I'd say there was somewhere between 1/3 & 1/2 a cupful This has never ever happened before. We do shag A LOT when we get going. Can you do it too much? Saying that, we hadn't been going that long when it happened. I'm off to the docs tomorrow morning, this has to stop. Mopping up during sex is NOT sexy!

You are seriously going to go to your GP for female ejaculation? It's not an illness it's a natural part of sex for many women.

We have a sex topic?

You'll be fine, I doubt very much it was pee. If you otherwise pee normally, can feel yourself peeing etc then it most likely wasn't that. Yes, women can ejaculate, or sometimes just get extremely wet/lots of fluid. Discharge comes in all colors and textures.

I really wouldn't worry about this.

Seriously, you are going to the GP? WTF?
Female ejaculation is normal, what on earth do you think your GP is going to do?

don't be mean people, op had you orgasmed?

Its normal

Did he go out of his way to reassure you as he part of the reason you're feeling 'ashamed'?

No, I hadn't got to the point of orgasm but I was getting close. We're talking HALF A CUPFUL here, that can't be normal? I've seen a porn star 'ejaculate' & it wasn't more than a squirt. It certainly wouldn't have saturated a generous square foot of bed! I'm guessing it's urinary incontinence when I 'let go'.

What's wrong with op going to the gp?! How on earth can you all know for sure it's female ejaculation?
Hopefully it is op but I would go to the GP too.

He's never seen anything like it. He thought I'd peed myself. It was yellow! It took LOADS of kitchen towel to soak it up & they were drenched! If this carries on I'll have to put a baby changing mat under my butt, how embarrassing.

How many of you have leaked half a cupful of yellow liquid?

Me, never! I have never encountered female ejaculation either though to be fair, maybe it's normal

m.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/female_ejaculation.htm

I may be naive here, but I had always assumed that female ejaculation occurred at the point of orgasm?...

Er... Everyone who says it's normal. You see it in porn, but that's about it, surely?

I would assume the same Itsall!

OP, I think some people are just trying to reassure you as you sound so wound up. I was anyway , especially after that nerve damage post (unlikely)

Go to the GP if you want. If it was pee, and there is a problem, there are also many solutions that aren't baby changing mats or embarrassment causing. Womens health physio for one, among many more, meds for incontinence and all sorts.

I've had large wet patches before as I get very wet and I sweat a lot down there (grim). DH is a doctor and has never said it's anything suspicious.

Just please calm down a bit ok