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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Waving Goodbye To Summer Nights, Sipping Mocktails.

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Mouseface · 08/09/2015 20:07

Hello, I'm Mouse Welcome to the Bus. :)

Well, it would appear that Autumn is on it's way I have the heating on and can't wait to use the log burner.... shhh! Grin

So, who are we? We're just like you. Married, single, divorced, lots of children or no children, working or a SAHM, it doesn't matter, we all breathe the same air.....

We're just trying to live our lives on the Bus, like you do each day. Well, except for one thing...

I know don't start my day with a swig, or seven, from a litre bottle of vodka (choose your poison) any longer.

And that's what has kept me here, for years now. And no doubt many more to come. Reading the stories of others struggles, wanting to say "I feel like that" or "I do that too!" but being to ashamed to be the first to put your hand up.

Well, let me reassure you here and now, there's not much that we haven't read about on here or done ourselves over the years.

We've laughed at stories of haphazard nights out, we've cried at the loss of loved ones and we've shared the pain that only an alcoholic knows when all that they want is to STOP!

Push the pause button, get off the ride, shut the door, bury yourself under the duvet for days. We've all felt that sickening feeling in our gut that makes us want to curl up and hide forever. And we've shared it all on here.

You see I don't know you and you don't know me, so we're just words on a screen to each other. Eventually, you'll get to know me more and I you, and the other fantastic Babes too, some will stay, some leave us, then some come back.

One thing I can PROMISE - here you are safe, here you won't be judged, turned away (unless you're not genuine) and we even have a huge stock of Opal Fruits but that's all down to Ma.

So, if you think we're you're kind of lovely bunch of people to help you stop drinking, slow down, hold your hand while you decide what to do, then come find a seat!

OUR MOST RECENT THREAD

AND A VERY SOBERING READ, THAT LEAD TO THE BIRTH OF THE THREADS THAT FOLLOWED

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Fairenuff · 04/10/2015 12:10

I'm cleaning the bathrooms, putting a dye on my hair and picking ds up when he surfaces from his sleepover (do you still call them that when they're 16?)

But first I'm going to have some tea and toast Smile

Dh has already cleaned the kitchen and gone for a swim, then he's going to do the supermarket shop and go for a bike ride. Hopefully we will all be together this evening for dinner. May even skype dd and see how her weekend has been.

Sorry you didn't catch the mice ma, keep the traps there, they'll be back I'm sure.

beachestoexplore · 04/10/2015 12:18

Morning Ma, I have been wallowing in bed so far, have to work later and then an af evening planned. Hope your dad's visit went ok, it can't be easy so no wonder it is hard to get going.

Re the mice - borrow a cat?

Have a good day all x

beachestoexplore · 04/10/2015 12:21

Hi Faire, cross posted with you there babe. Your household sounds like a productive unit! What colour hair? I need to touch up my roots too.

Fairenuff · 04/10/2015 13:06

I'm just covering the grey bits beaches so although my hair is light brown, I put the darkest blonde on and it all blends in ok.

beachestoexplore · 04/10/2015 13:31

Oh yes the pesky greys although I think when mine break through they are white. Destined to be cottonwool at a later date it seems Grin

Hope you get to catch up with Dd on skype, I am sure you are missing her.

dementedma · 04/10/2015 14:59

What talk is this of grey hair? Mine is purple. Wonder if I should dye my pubes to match.....

beachestoexplore · 04/10/2015 15:12

Grin definitely ma, cuffs and collars.....

aliasjoey · 04/10/2015 17:08

Grin purple pubes! For whose benefit I wonder?

dementedma · 04/10/2015 17:12

Why, mine, joey

obrigada · 05/10/2015 09:18

Morning babes, wet Monday morning here in Ireland. Today is Day 2 for me. It was my eldest daughters 30th on Saturday but only drank 3 drinks and was home before 12 leaving the rest to party without me x

obrigada · 05/10/2015 20:00

Did I kill the thread? Hope all babes doing ok this evening?

Fairenuff · 05/10/2015 20:08

Hi obrigade, well done at the 3 drinks restraint. We are all tired here today, probably going to go for the Monday early night tonight. It seems to get dark very early these days.

dementedma · 05/10/2015 21:16

Hey obrigada. OK here. Can't drink much as have to take dd1 to the airport in the wee small hours as she finally leaves home and heads for Spain in the hope of finding a job and a life out there. She has a case packed and a one way ticket. Wish her luck....

venusandmars · 05/10/2015 21:49

ma my dd is in Germany. She has found a flat and some work and some new friends and is having a lovely time. And she didn't even speak any German before she went.... I bet she and your dd are kindred spirits!

mouse sorry to hear you've been ill (I was away on holiday so just catching up) hope you're breathing better again.

Did wry ever come back? And has isindie disappeared again? OHh please come back everyone.... someone here needs to hear your story, and you might need to write it out...

Fairenuff · 05/10/2015 22:02

They are very brave young women, I hope they have the time of their lives.

Lots of people MIA at the moment venus, hope they're ok and will pop in sometime. Great to hear from rural.

evilpopstar · 05/10/2015 22:27

I'm here! I posted earlier but bloody lost the post. Got vague hangover and so tired. Think reeling from the whole thing with my dad who is doing ok finally. hello to all of you old and new.

obrigada · 06/10/2015 11:10

Morning babes, another alcohol free night under my belt - in bed and asleep just after 9 Grin. Woke up in bad form for no particular reason other than same old same old. Just cannot seem to get puppy to go toilet outside and it didn't help my mood this morning when he did his business in the kitchen.

obrigada · 06/10/2015 14:31

Apologies for my little rant earlier, just feeling out of sorts today Hmm

Fairenuff · 06/10/2015 16:42

Call that a rant? You softy, you obrigada. I can't advise re puppy training as I've never had a dog but have you tried posting in 'the doghouse' or whatever it's called on mn?

dementedma · 06/10/2015 19:27

Hey Venus .
wry left again. I don't know why Sad. Haven't heard from indie for ages.

SmallFox · 06/10/2015 19:53

Ma hats off to your daughter - how amazing, how brave and how very far removed from anything I could imagine doing right now. I love her spirit - I hope all works out so brilliantly for her. And Venus, great that your daughter has such a good story to tell - you must be so proud.

Am ok, am hanging in there. Just feeling tired, old and a bit despondent. Everything just feels more difficult than by rights it ought to - parent stuff, child stuff, work stuff - not sure where the time is for me stuff (sorry if that sounds plaintive - I don't resent the rest of it, parent/child aspects thereof, anyway).

Mouse - you getting better and stronger? Thinking of you.

Sweet - if you're reading, hugs to you. Miss you, babe.

aliasjoey · 06/10/2015 20:24

obrigada i cant blame your puppy, i wouldn't want to go to the toilet outside in this awful weather either!

dementedma · 06/10/2015 21:30

Thanks. She is 24 so its about time she flew this nest. I hope she finds what she is looking for as she has been so miserable here. If she doesn't get a job and has to come home empty handed she will be gutted. I want her to settle out there and make a life for herself. Wish I could just pack a bag and book a one way ticket to somewhere...

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