A partner I had said to me, after we had done the deed, 'how would you feel if I said I had never done that before ?' I replied, 'I would be surprised as you are a good lover' was my reply. Reader, I married him.
I wasn't the first girl he'd kissed etc. However, it was the first time a contraceptive device was deployed !
I've had rubbish sex from so called experienced men. Experience of what exactly ? Rubbish sex ?
Here's my experience of sex with men who weren't virgins: Selfish in bed. Or lacking in confidence and find foreplay boring. Or just wanted a 'fanny wank' i.e. just moved the head of his penis in and out of the top of my vagina so he would get the sensation. Or arbitrarily decided to shove his finger up my bum 'because women like that'. No I bloody don't and it might have been nice if you asked first. Or entitled to sex just because the relationship is in situ, i.e. doesn't have to be nice about it anymore. You're my girlfriend so sex is therefore a feature.
It's just dawned on me that my first boyfriend was a virgin, he was a teenager like I was and so was my last, he was in his late twenties same as me.
IME, virgins make better lovers because they are not selfish and have not fallen into bad habits. Sex can be referred to as a, 'poke' unfortunately that's all some men can do or want.
You're to young to remember the, 'Black Adder' comedy show but at one point a young prince is trying to woo a princess with the help of Black Adder. Just as Black Adder has started to smooth the path, the prince comes along and shouts out, 'sausage time !'
A lot of blokes just see women and just think, 'sausage time !'
You will break your duck one day.