How often does your DP go out?

[BlueBananas]

I'm sure this has been done before but the search bar is throwing up some really random unrelated results at me

Anyway how often does your DP/DH go out? And when they do what kind of time do they get in? Do you know where they are/who they're with when they're out?

At this point I just feel like I've lost all sight of what's normal and acceptable

Dunno, as often as he wants really. Maybe once a month or so for a full on night out and other stuff in between. He gets home when he gets home, could be midnight, could be 5am, he might crash somewhere and I'll see him next day. He always sends a text when that's the case.
sometimes I know who he's out with, sometimes I don't. We don't know all of each others friends.

Mine goes out several times a week. In the week he's usually home by midnight, much later at the weekends, on occasion all night. Same goes for me.

If he moved out again, would you really notice the difference? Less shouting seems about the sum of it.

XH hardly ever went anywhere at all, but he was a bit weird.

Personally I'd tell him you expect an equal partnership which means equal leisure time and equally spending and responsibilities.

So if he goes out, you'll be banking the same amount of time and money he's had for you to do the same.

See what his reaction is to that. That'll tell you all you need to know.