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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Shaping Up For A Super, Sober Summer!

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Mouseface · 12/05/2015 13:40

Hey, I'm Mouse Smile

This is 'Gerald', our trustworthy, non judgemental Bus, full of a variety of posters who have travelled long and far, or even just joined us a few stops ago.

This is a place where you can be who YOU want to be. 24/7, 365. This lovely place is just like your best friend, there's no slagging off, no judging, just us. Smile

Drinking or not, embarrassed, fed up of the way things are, or just lonely of living the way drinking makes you do, come and take a peek and see what you think.....

THIS THE LAST THREAD WE HAD

AND THIS IS WHERE THE BUS WAS BUILT, WHERE IT ALL BEGAN

We can't wait to meet you, we won't bite! Well, unless you ask very nicely. Wink

Take good care until we see you. :) xx

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venusandmars · 23/06/2015 14:26

Re meetings - I met the lovely Thurso when she was in my home town (I think her dh was worried about her meeting a random person off the internet) and I met another babe for coffee a couple of times with her child (and I was glad to hear recently that she has been sober now for 3 years).

And ma and isindie of course. Which incidentally was more difficult. Fabulous women, and great fun, but I found it immensely more of a trigger for wanting a drink. Fortunately lots of cars and driving was involved (although only one car was used as a murder weapon), but in my head I kept thinking "Oh God, it would have been such fun if we were drinking" Confused

Trooperslane · 23/06/2015 14:44

Shoes - my nemesis, though strangely swapped with kid's stuff since dd was born.

but I only have 60ish pairs

Khalisi · 23/06/2015 14:57

oh venus, do I know "Oh God, it would have been such fun if we were drinking" Confused
Oh, and what in the world are sling-backs? Shock
Love the slippers!

Ok, I will admit Isinde, my jaw dropped reading your post. Blush
Only four pairs of shoes?! OMG.
I used to have a shoe closet in my old flat. Sometimes when I have a down moment, I pour myself a glass of fizz and try on all my shoes. Blush
Yes, maybe not normal but they make me feel good.

ma, all those fancy do's?! Bloody hell. I'd go to town, literally.

Keep 'em coming, ladies! Grin

Khalisi · 23/06/2015 15:08

Trooper I first when Shock and then Blush because I was rolling a boulder your way from my glass Penthouse! Grin
I've never counted my shoes. It would just lead to unnecessary guilt feelings.
I am a mother of two grown up daughters. I have enough guilt to last a life time. Wink

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guggenheim · 23/06/2015 17:23

Hello,I'm Guggs and I have a big problem with alcohol and shoes,boots,wellies,slippers,flip flops,sandals and clogs (don't ask)

I am specific about type,and love DM's with the kind of passion men reserve for vintage cars. I regularly enter shoe shops just to stroke the products....mmmmmm.....

This year I NEED chestnut coloured boots Grin. It may be a motive to stay of the booze.

But HOW can you have only 4 pairs? what about trainers? Wellies? Slippers? hiking boots? twitch,twitch.

kalisi come this way my dear,I have the most beautiful pair of wedge sandals. They are coral and have geometric designs up the sides. miiiiiineeee prrreciousssss!

guggenheim · 23/06/2015 17:24

Off for fuck's sake,not 'of'. I can spell. Was just distracted at the thought of lovely,lovely shoes.

dementedma · 23/06/2015 17:59

And I have met the fabulous indie and the serene Venus and missed out on the meet up with the lovely thurso.
Here is my picture of what is on my feet at the mo: (plus pjs)

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Shaping Up For A Super, Sober Summer!
dementedma · 23/06/2015 18:00

Sexy, huh?

dementedma · 23/06/2015 18:05

And here is my organised storage system. Yes, I am a slattern!

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dementedma · 23/06/2015 19:34

Pmsl at borderline perversion.......
I finished early as work has imploded. Accountants called in and a board meeting next week and then probably administrators....

guggenheim · 23/06/2015 19:40

Only borderline? Grin

Infanticide is bad and wrong I've been frequently tempted

ma I'm so sorry about the job- you all gave it your best and your lovely boss sounds amazing.

babyjane1 · 23/06/2015 19:51

Nobody puts baby in the corner!!!

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babyjane1 · 23/06/2015 20:08

Ps bottle opener in the background is dh's who's drinking beer as a reward for gardening xxxxx

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dementedma · 23/06/2015 20:28

Thanks
baby that is one hell of a shoe! How do people walk in heels?
Dd2 wears killer heels. Seriously killer! She says "go high, or go home" Grin I am weirdly loving all the pictures of peoples shoes and feet. It makes you all real!

Trooperslane · 23/06/2015 20:29

The storage issue - an ikea wardrobe with a double full height shoe rack.

Changed my life Wink

Sorry can't post a pic. On the crappy app.

SmallFox · 23/06/2015 20:42

Blimey, I'm closer to having a drink than I have been for several weeks....all those lovely, lovely shoes. Mmmmm....I never really thought I had a footwear issue before now, but am beginning to realise I was way wrong on that..

I took a couple of pictures of my shoe 'storage' cupboards and am plunged into shame. Too embarrassed to post them. Well over 80 randomly stacked pairs, of which 11 are Converse, 13 DMs of some description or other and 9 Birkenstocks. Even a couple of pairs of Manolos, not that I've ever worn them - am basically a DM girl at heart. And well over 85% are black - I clearly never really got over that goth thing. (I looked at a pic of DD, the other day, in her DMs, leather biker jacket and mildly-cool-bob and thought yikes, I'm dressing her exactly as I dressed myself at university - am irrevocably stuck in the mid-80s, and not really that embarrassed about it, either).

Suitably shamed. On the up side, it has been lovely seeing all your shoe pics! Hope you're doing ok - Ma, I am so, so sorry about work - it seems to be sliding to a fateful conclusion and from what you say there is little to be done, but it is just so sad. I am glad you have had a great boss throughout it all - just such a shame that you have good boss/bad work prospects and others have the reverse. I hope you're ok.

Can we change the subject from shoes, just to save my sanity? Please, humour me? How about soundtracks - if you are listening/could listen to anything this evening, what would it be? Reflecting on the history of my footwear fetish has made me all nostalgic and I'm having a Talking Heads night (and not even the semi-respectable bits - have always had a bit of a sneaky thing for Little Creatures, and am yowling away happily). Go on, share, please: cheer me up!

SmallFox · 23/06/2015 20:44

PS - Baby - can't change the subject without a special shout out for you and your stilettos!