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DP said something strange last night

93 replies

ConfusedAndBothered · 02/11/2006 14:11

BACKGROUND: Ex and I were together for about a year and a half. No children together. About 8 weeks ago we broke up because I felt he was really untidy in himself and his home and I felt unloved as he never showed me any affectionI don't know if he was having an affair or not but I really don't think he was. We broke up on friendly terms but he begged and begged me not to leave him but I thought it was for the best. We lost contact until 2 weeks ago when I was worried I hadn't heard from him (he has attempted suicide in his past) so popped around and he was fine, just lost my number as he lost his phone. He begged for us to get back together and we did.

PROBLEM: Last night I was over at his and we were just watching TV quietly when he suddenly announced 'I asked a girl out but she turned me down'. I asked him if he asked her out before he and I got back in touch and he said he did but WTF did he just feel the need to announce that? I DONT WANT to know who he asked out.
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OP posts:
NannySparkler · 02/11/2006 16:21

i've got to go now...please all just be nice to her because i'm sure she'll still be looking at this thread. She's been through alot more with this man than you guys know but it isnt my place to say whats happened. Just know that she hasn't got no-one right now and was there thru my dp cheating on me. thats how lovely she is. virtual hugs to P please everyone xxx

Mellowma · 02/11/2006 16:21

Message withdrawn

fairyfly · 02/11/2006 16:22

She asked if she should dump him, i think highlighting the facts why she should is surely a good thing. Nobody has personally attacked her and i'm not taking responsibility for someone crying in London. It's insane, again, i think the over sensitivity might be more related to desperately wanting it to work because she doesn't want to be alone. Not a group of "bitches" on here.

NannySparkler · 02/11/2006 16:23

sorry mascara really didn't mean that but don't be mean to her. i know you're only making it lighthearted but things are tough right now for her and she's not laughing. I'm away for the night and i'm not coming back on here least not for a while. bye x

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:25

I just have to inform you that I wasn't mean to her...

..but you can call me a prat. I'm a perv, I get off on it.. you're making me wet.

NannySparkler · 02/11/2006 16:26

oh, and sorry to all you bitches who i called bitches, didnt mean that either.

piglit · 02/11/2006 16:27

FFS. She got good advice from MNers:

  1. Leave him; and
  1. He's not worthy of you.

Some of us took the mick out of this guy who is so obviously not in her league and we get hysterionics. Sigh.

NannySparkler · 02/11/2006 16:27

you're scaring me mascara

fairyfly · 02/11/2006 16:27

Who are all the bitches Sparkler?

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:27
NannySparkler · 02/11/2006 16:28

no ones a bitch....i took it back x

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:29

"oh, and sorry to all you bitches who i called bitches,"

I don't think you did take it back really.

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:29

not that I mind.

NannySparkler · 02/11/2006 16:30

oh i did mascara

piglit · 02/11/2006 16:30

Oh mascara you are just killing me today.

Mellowma · 02/11/2006 16:33

Message withdrawn

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:33

Well, to be honest, I do like a bit of pork

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:34

sorry mellowma xposts - that was meant for piglit..

fairyfly · 02/11/2006 16:36

I accept apologies off all the arseholes i think are arseholes.

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:37

ROFPMSL @ FairyFly!!!

nailpolish · 02/11/2006 16:41

what other thread

piglit · 02/11/2006 16:43

The one about the fat xp who has a shitty toilet. I think.

mascaraohara · 02/11/2006 16:43

I mean

nailpolish · 02/11/2006 16:44

can anyone be arsed to do a link to the shitty bog thread

piglit · 02/11/2006 16:46

Sorry - am crap at links but it's the one that starts "Dirty ex....."

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