Is this a red flag? Or am I being too cautious? (online dating)

[MardyPants]

So I've been talking to a man who I met on POF, we've not met in real life yet. He seems alright but incredibly forward about talking about sex. Not sure if I'm just being prudish or if this is just normal nowadays / or just a typical man, always thinking with his dick. We've been talking a couple of weeks over the phone and by text.

Stuff he's said :

I'm really highly sexed, I work out a lot so have loads more testoterone than other blokes so if I'm with a partner I need loads of sex
I'm quite grumpy, but I'll be fine after if you just sort me out (mmm, because grumpy is soooooo hot)
I have a thing about feet. Will you send me a pic of your feet? Will you send me a pic of your feet? Will you send me a pic of your feet? Oh go on!
I like foot jobs, I bet you can imagine what they are
Bet you're thinking, can't wait to rip his clothes off and take advantage
(loads of questions about my feet, are they soft, are they pretty, are they smelly (!) and, will I send a photo)

And he read me a load of guff about tantric sex off some website, over the phone. And not sex related, but has mentioned marriage or marriage related stuff at least 4 times, followed by, am only joking.

Hmmmmm.

Motley - you maybe closer to the truth than we all fear. He only asked if the feet are pretty - and then asked if they smell. Perhaps pretty feet are not on the wish list of the perfect woman.

Can't believe I have just written that.

I couldn't have any conversation with someone who said all that, yuk!

He does sound dull (as well as utterly revolting and offensive of course).

Foot fetish is a bit old hat isn't it! Very pre-internet. Very man made fibres.

Poor grumpy entitled testosto-pot. You don't love him any more OP, this unpleasant man you've never met. HOW COULD YOU.

A foot job is definitely masturbating someone with your feet.

Also sex with strangers doesn't mean you're selfish. If anything the opposite. People are always out to please the first few times.

I've used OD for NSA and even then this would get me running. "Sort him out"- well that does make him sound selfish. The feet thing wouldn't gross me out (though its not for me) in a relationship but it's waaaay too much. Highly sexed? He's a single man. Of course he thinks he's highly sexed.

This mans flag is so red it's on fire.

Oh yes! 'Highly sexed' - well yes you would think that, because you Never Bloody Get Any. Because of text exchanges like this.

omg he is horrendous

I've done my fair share of online dating. Someone got it right further up ...cant refind the post now though... but basically, this is him at his BEST ..on his impress her behaviour and most charming!!!

good grief. No, just no. Trust me on this...it will just get worse!