Another Thread (LoserNoMore...again)

[LoserNoMore]

Hi, so on another thread but not really much further forward, in fact I feel worse. Anyway I've been to the doctors and have Anti D's and referred to a counsellor. Hopefully these will work.

Thanks to everyone for their support on previous threads and PMs too, it is all very much appreciated.

Me tooLNM, let us know you are OK,

I am going to make this bloody cheesecake soon, I am desperate for a bit, but it may be like when I make millionaire shortbread - its TOO good and it all gets scoffed so I dont make it again for years.

LNM - just check in, we care, we want to know how you are.

When we go on holiday end July I will be in a place with hardly any signal for internet or mobile. Its quite nice, until you want to do something that uses internet.

Leaves lots of lovely coffee for those in need.

Good morning - hope to hear from you today

Long time lurker just writing to say please check in LNM. I've followed your threads from the start and you can't see it as you are IN IT but you HAVE come such a long way and are such an inspiration. You are in a dark place but you WILL come out the other side. Please don't give up.

Thinking of you, LNM.

Me too. When you are ready to speak again there will be someone here. X

Shit, I'm sorry. Didn't mean to worry anyone. I'm ok, I've just not been able to get online all weekend for various reasons. I'm on A/L from work this week and next so just enjoying time with dd's.

Also need to try and get into interview mode for interview later. I thought about cancelling it but I really want it and I'd regret not going.

Sorry again

Good luck for your interview.

Hello LNM! REALLY good luck with the interview today! Hope it goes brilliantly.

We're all worriers here and just glad to see you're alright.

Good luck with the interview, I'm sure you'll be brilliant. My top tip is to not feel like you have to start answering the question immediately, take a second to gather your thoughts and then give a more considered answer. Its certainly stopped me from spouting some crap in the past - in interviews anyway, I spout a lot of crap elsewhere

Good luck! Glad to hear you've been busy

Thank you, I never get nervous at interviews for some reason but I feel sick with nerves today! It's at 4.45pm so trying to keep calm

Ha Chips, I'm scared my mind goes totally blank and I don't know what to say, long silences are never good.

Good Luck LNM!

Glad to see you back. Hope you're having lots of fun with your DD's.

Bring in some notes with you and leave on table in front of you. If you go blank just stay cool and say I am a little nervous and am just going to check my notes to make sure I cover everything. I do this and even if I don't use them it calms me knowing they are there. Good luck!

Good to hear from you, LNM!
Good luck with the interview. Remember silences always seem much longer to you than they really are!

Thanks for the tip, not an ideal day for an interview, I'm hot and sweaty and my hay fever is terrible! Grr.

good luck with interview. Glad all ok, just busy. But dont feel you have to post if you dont want to, we were all just worried after your late at night.

Wear something that you feel comfortable but cool in, hopefully where you are going will have air con.

Just catching up with you.
Well.... You're in the interview now! Eeekkk...
Hope it went really well.
Let us know how you got on.
Keep it all going, you'll get there!

Holy shit that was intense! Think it went ok, I had literally no saliva in my mouth and it was so hot. 3 people interviewing me but I answered every question. I'll find out this week'

You got through it and it sounds like you did well! Fingers crossed for you.

You answered every question? That's just blown my theory out of the window - that there is always one question that you (I) blank on!

glad it went well. now, treat yourself to something nice this evening.

Miffy, probably answered wrong though.

Oh well, what will be will be. Honestly I don't think I'll get it. There are loads of people in for it.

A treat sounds good Jax, Ben and Jerrys it is.

ooh, whats your fave flavour?

I am a fan of choc brownie, phish food and cherry garcia. Actually, B&J (not to be confused with any other kind of B or J) are my two favourite virtual males in the world.

Dont think you can answer interview Q's 'wrongly' - its your interpretation of the answer... so long as you didnt answer in the style of that Randoms advert I think you'll be fine.