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A happy update from TIL

388 replies

TisILeclerc · 18/04/2013 14:29

She and the children are where they need to be now and she is very grateful for all the support and encouragement she has received. I hope very much that she will return here but for now she?s intending to lie a little bit low.

Please just be sensitive to the fact that this is a huge, life changing decision for her and I think she would like it toned down a bit wrt pompoms and congratulations. I hope very much that this will change as the days pass and she becomes accustomed to the incredulous joy of freedom. She is already sounding positive about life where she is right now.

This time they really are ?safe? in the way that everybody hoped previously.

NB I have not used any names in this for a reason. Please be aware of security as she is understandably very worried about him locating her

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ScrambledSmegs · 18/04/2013 17:42

Good news. Thank you TIS.

KitchenandJumble · 18/04/2013 17:45

Thank you so much for the update. I am very happy for them. I'm really in awe of the courage and strength required for such a monumental change. May that courage and strength continue to sustain her in the days ahead.

forgetmenots · 18/04/2013 18:05

Thank you for the update. Completely understand her desire for the fanfare to be muted, if you can, let her know that we are all very much in awe of her dignity and strength in this decision.

tumbletumble · 18/04/2013 18:37

Thank you for the update Tis Smile Smile Smile

QuintessentialOHara · 18/04/2013 18:38

Thanks. Flowers

That is great news.

Can you give a grin from me that goes not from ear to ear but around my entire head? Imagine the corners of my mouth at the back of my neck. Sort of.

Charlesroi · 18/04/2013 18:47

Well done TIL and please pass on my best wishes and admiration to your friend and her family. Grin

Cuddlydragon · 18/04/2013 19:01

Thank you for the update. I'm in awe of her strength and courage. I wish her and her children every happiness and joy in the future. Smile

foolonthehill · 18/04/2013 19:04

There is a long road from here, but I hope and pray that the footsteps always go forwards and that she and her DC have many friends to help them along the way.

LittleBearPad · 18/04/2013 19:09

Thank you TIS, that's such good news. Best wishes to her and the DCs. Upwards now and onwards.

mum47 · 18/04/2013 19:09

Another lurker, wishing her and dc well, and strength and courage for the journey ahead. Flowers

weebarra · 18/04/2013 19:33

Delurking. Good news. Thank you TIL.

MadAboutHotChoc · 18/04/2013 19:34

Smile thanks for letting us know Thanks

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lovelilies · 18/04/2013 19:36

Thank goodness, wishing all the luck in yhe world, and a big fat well done Smile

RenterNomad · 18/04/2013 19:38

What a relief. I hope they all find peace.

lunar1 · 18/04/2013 19:47

Thank you for the update, this is one of the bravest stories I have ever read.

Pandemoniaa · 18/04/2013 20:04

Such a relief and such good news. All the best on their voyage towards Much Better Things.

butterflymeadow · 18/04/2013 20:11

Thank heavens. Strength and courage for every step of the journey ahead.

MrsPoglesWood · 18/04/2013 20:15

That is great news, I wish her all the best in her journey towards a new and happy life with her DC.

MushroomSoup · 18/04/2013 20:26

GODSPEED!

ponygirlcurtis · 18/04/2013 20:33

Thinking of you. It's just the beginning of a journey, and it'll probably be a hard one, but you've already proved you are more than up to the challenge. You can do anything now. Don't be afraid to ask for help, either here on through PMs or RL people.

And glad you have Tis in your corner , she rocks!

thepatioislumpy · 18/04/2013 20:42

Good luck. I hope all is well and that you settle where you are. You have done a wonderful thing, now keep being led by the rl help you have there. They know their stuff Smile

claudedebussy · 18/04/2013 20:45

that is SUCH a relief. i think of her every day. a cloud has lifted.

and i think the support on her threads has been totally amazing.

people with unbelievably good insight, math and izzy, to name a couple. what an amazing place mn is.

good luck to her.

claudedebussy · 18/04/2013 20:46

and a thank you to TisI for letting us know and being a strong support behind the scenes.

take care.

knitknack · 18/04/2013 20:47

Wow, she is amazing!

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