I need to get over this crush, it is crushing me...

[YoniShapedLoveBox]

Found an ex boyfriend on FB, he was the BEST and we ended because of family pressure (we were young)
He accepted my FB friendship but doesn't reply to my private message (I just asked for a recommendation from his work field) and seems happy with his GF.
I am a total stalker right now, lusting over his photos and can't get over it...
I know it is ridiculous and IABU
Also, what is the chance he isn't replying because he didn't see the message? It is not marked as 'seen', but apparently he could have checked on his email...? He definitely is logging in as he accepted me as a friend not long ago...(last week)...I habe been drooling over his photos for a long time, but decided to add him on a crazy spur of the moment.

Just spoke to an good old friend and she also remembers how cute, sweet, gentle and perfect he was to me...

Please give me a much needed kick in the butt

TIA

Still embarrassing tough.
Actually the word I used was sexy, not hot

Shit

But
Did he have a look at my FB, yes or no?

and sorry for my spelling mistakes, I'm still learning English

I am not answering that question

You don't need an answer to that question

Move on, for fuck's sake. There you go, an olde worlde English term

Pleeeeeeease. I'm heartsick.

How old are you?

Give over, stop being silly and attention seeking

[holding sides at silliness] fwiw when I have been contacted by weirdos people from my past/work industry I am really polite and reserved and discourage pm's

If they are really interested in being a friend or working with me that's great - if I suspect they are perving I block them completely.

Thankfully only a handful (including guy who's DW connected with me for work taking the opportunity to be a total sleaze get in touch) are like that.

Srsly tho - do you really want to be the person reasonably balanced people avoid?

I'm a lot older than it seems . Bye. I'm namechanging.x

That is a wise decision