Dating chat thread 46

[lubeybooby]

all dating related chit chat here!

off we go

Can there be some hot chocolate too?

Oh god yes. There has to be

I'm hopeful about Buffy, but not yet married :)

Oh dear, MedStudent is FB messaging me. Damnit. Should have cancelled date 3 already.

ok.. here we go...

I'll bring fruit juice, that's how I take my rum.

Ah, the dark cupboard days of Yore...

Miranda - we broke up last time because he had a secret phone and was texting a few girls on it. He had cheated before and always had an issue with texting/ flirting with other girls. This had gone on most of the time we were together any time we had a bad patch!

Oh yes and I just found out what happens to my brothers friend. I think he has a girlfriend, soooo glad I didn't call him now!!! Abit annoyed that he was feeding me crap saying he saw it as not just about one thing and liked me

I think I'll just go get in the cupboard anyway, I'm in a dark cupboard sort of mood...no idea why, some weird hormone/brain chemistry thing prob'

mercury I think I'll join you! the last few days has me all frazzled. relieved but frazzled.

Don't worry I'll be quiet.

good luck bant..

I'll try and be quiet but there may be some involuntary muttering or humming:o

It was a ROOM last time folks not a bleedin cupboard...a darkened ROOM! It was small n cramped before.......

Can we have some ginger beer too .. I am trying to cut down on drinking in the week starting tomorrow .. Although parents night which involves stbxh so maybe not a good night to start

I was beginning to think mr cheeky had deleted my number as hadn't heard from him since Thursday .. Lots of woe is me type texts .. No 'how was your trip' or 'how was your DDs birthday' though

Well he hasn't deleted my number .. Got this an hour ago

Just had the worst birthday of my life. I have nothing

And then this 5 mins ago

And ive thot a lot about where i should be tonight........wtf has happened?????? ( we were supposed to be going away from last night till tomorrow for his birthday but I cancelled it after he stood me up again to get drunk with his pal last week)

I am continuing to ignore though .. Nothing left to say.. Just a load of emotional blackmail don't you all think?

He is certainly feeling sorry for HIMSELF there Kirst...

Kirsty what a drag... seriously. I can't bear emotional vampires who do nothing to help themselves. He could sort his life out entirely if he just stopped whingeing for five minutes. Ignore and block or get a new sim?

Kirsty - fuck that

Cupboard/room/marquee. Lets go!

I don't care how big the cupboard/room is, it does the job. I like it here.

it's a magic cupboard!
it expands and contracts in perfect response to our individual requirements:o

Or it's like a Tardis...bigger on the inside :)

Have been having crappy, feeling sorry for myself evening. Not helped by no text from C, and no other developments. Even chocolate and cat videos have failed to cheer me up.

Let's hope tomorrow is a better day...

Hope it is a better day tomorrow for you velv

Also kirsty... just to add, he bloody knows what's happened... hence my extreme irk with him and zero patience. Definitely block if you can or change number or sim or something.

Kirsty He does sound 'all about me' not good.

I have told my son in OZ about Mr R&R. He was a little surprised. He will be more surprised now I have told him, Oh not been seeing him long...3 months

He said that I should read up on depression ( he was diagnosed last week .. I'm not surprised as his life is a disaster zone and something had to give) but I think I am not being unreasonable in thinking depression doesn't stop you from knowing that you are treating someone badly?? As quite a lot of you have had depression do you think that excuses him from 'being all over the place ' and letting me down?

No it doesn't excuse him. Even in my darkest times (and they were very bloody dark) I never treated anyone badly. Apart from myself anyway.

Kirsty my advice on depression comes both from my own experience of being depressed and from living, for many years, with people suffering with depression - it is no excuse for treating those around you badly.
I feel very strongly about that as it was used as a rationale/get out clause/explanation for poor behaviour, on a frequent basis in my own experience of family life. Do not accept being treated poorly.

Waves to everyone, Velvet hope you have a better day, 48, nice to see you, Voice, hope you're ok, chuck.

Kirsty - what's the background with him? 'you should read up on depression' sounds like poor old him and you need to be nice now as he's depressed. But what about you? And how he makes you feel?