Halimasho Have just checked in and need to set the record straight re your post of 07:42:16. My DD2 is probably the finest person anyone would ever meet; I would love her even if she wasn't my DD! She is so very kind and compassionate to everyone. Also, she is a great mother!
She worries about me a lot and has always respected my wishes to be alone on high days, certain anniversaries and holidays. There was certainly no pressure on me to attend the family gathering but I simply thought that it was time that, despite my deep personal grief, I made an effort to join in.
It was a good day.