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New beginning. Dating thread 41

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lubeybooby · 11/02/2013 23:22

Dating chit chat here :)

OP posts:
48howdidthathappen · 14/02/2013 21:26

Mercury He knew it was never going to happen. I think the texting started a few hours before I saw shagged him Wink

48howdidthathappen · 14/02/2013 21:32

Maybe if someone else takes the pictures there is the problem of ownership.

Who owns the pictures Confused

mercury7 · 14/02/2013 21:36

for me it's more to do with having control over what images are seen of me, obviously once I've sent it to someone else I cant control what they do with it

KinNora · 14/02/2013 21:38

I don't know, I've only ever done it for one person and I was fairly certain he would be keeping them for his own personal use now hopefully using them to have a tearful wank and bemoaning losing me

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 21:40

Mercury no that is not weird, I would never, ever let anyone take any 'candid' pictures. Once they are out there, they are out there. Even those they I have sent are very well edited so that if they ever ended up on the net I'd be 'yes that's me' rather than omg. The thing I always thought about was how would I feel if these ended up at work.

OhWesternWind · 14/02/2013 21:43

I don't think I'd be happy sending anything explicit just because of the lack of control over what happens to it. Pant photo is very sedate, everything covered that needs to be - I think my m&e swimsuit is more revealing.

LM has seen it but he's at his mums still - hopefully the only reason he's not commented, not that he's shocked and horrified!!

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 21:46

omg a good looking man in my in box. Ok he is only 39 which explains it, probably average or something but still. I think I'm beginning not to care anymore as it's been a while.

Scrazy · 14/02/2013 21:46

I'm cringing now thinking about candid pics that I might have allowed someone to take. Glad he's a techno phobe and hope they remind him of what he is missing.

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 21:49

Spoke too soon. He went from Hello, 2 other lines direct to do you want to see some naked pictures of me. I declined, said I had enough cock pics but I almost said yes just to share but hey.

48howdidthathappen · 14/02/2013 21:56

Never had a cock shot. Do they usually ask if you want one first? Really?

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 22:01

Not usually, on fb (which is the only place I've had them before, don't ask) they usually just sent them. I knew it was coming fnarr fnarr because he asked if I had Skype then next sentence he asked. He did say naked, who knows.

mercury7 · 14/02/2013 22:01

I've been sent loads of unsolicited cock shots, always people I've never met.

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 22:02

48 and this one only went for it because I seem to have opened the'chat' feature on okc somehow and have always avoided it because of just that, plus the 'Hey gawjus' lot.

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 22:04

Phrases to watch out for are

Do you have msn
Do you have skype
Do you like my body
Back in a moment
I have something special for you/to show you/just for you Meh

mercury7 · 14/02/2013 22:06

I never even get a warning, just the picture and then

'did you like it?'
no I'm heaving you cretin

Bant · 14/02/2013 22:07

I had a girlfriend in a Long distance thing once ask me if she wanted me to send her photos of herself in her underwear. This was before sexting, when emails were still new, and digital cameras in their early days, and it was really out of character. I said yes, obviously as I hadn't seen her in a couple of weeks.

So the email came through with the photo of her gurning at the camera with a bra and pants wrapped around her head. I fell more in love with her than ever. She rocked.

happy valentines all. Divorce papers signed, kids in bed. Ho hum.

Snapespeare · 14/02/2013 22:13

Nameless just sent me an unsolicited file. Hmm

It's a book about introspersion he's currently reading that we had discussed and he thought I might enjoy.

Wink Grin

Well bant congratulations on the start of something new. :) all will be well.

Snapespeare · 14/02/2013 22:14

introversion am on the valentines brandy!

48howdidthathappen · 14/02/2013 22:21

Wonder if you have a personal collection of cock shots. You could offer to share yours first Grin Do you think they would be so keen.

Scrazy · 14/02/2013 22:27

I've had a couple of c shots, I didn't ask for them but they make me laugh as I had a boyfriend who was so well endowed that most others pale into insignificance so I just look and laugh.

JulietteMontague · 14/02/2013 22:28

Bant yes ho hum. That bit, which seems so significant is just ink drying. Nope, not even a metaphor. As Snape says, all will be well and if it is anything it is the beginning of something new and very good Smile.

48 I used to have a few, all deleted. Never did anything for me.

Snape that is so sweet of him Grin

Mercury I used to attract the groomer Hmm

smoothieooo · 14/02/2013 22:33

Hope you're okay Bant

I came home to beautiful hand made VD cards from the boys which, considering they're 14 and 12 is not bad going!

Shitbaggy STBex popped over to set up a PC so I could download some old pics of the DC (PC was at his parents) but I realised that rather than as a favour to me, it's because I'll have no excuse to go there to let them know about impending divorce. I might have to pop round anyway waving the Christmas card to him and his girlfriend. They think the sun shines out of his arse and have bought him a new car, allowed him to move into a flat they own and have pretty much ignored me and DC.

Rant nearly over.

Grrrrr

Okay. All better now!

VoiceofUnreason · 14/02/2013 23:03

Evening all. Any cake left, Jules, even if it does look dodgy?

ike1 · 14/02/2013 23:03

My god sorry but I have to say this ....I have not seen such an ugly bunch of limpers in a long time....

48howdidthathappen · 14/02/2013 23:07

Love is wasted on the young.

My DD has taken her chocs up to her room.
I have put the roses in a vase. They are looking good on my mantelpiece.
The rest is abandoned on the kitchen table.

Happy valetines Smile