The all new, sparkly,2013 Dating Thread - 35!

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off you go.

I have sent a text ending it with Mr R&R. My family are what matters.

48 it sounds like your family are very supportive of each other, take care of yourself too Sweetie.

Ok, love x

Please continue with thread. I/we will get through it.

I am a 4/5 on kink scale

Are we self-rating on the kink scale now ?

family are what matters.... wishing you the strenght to get through it.

Why not?

After giving it some thought, I'm saying a 6, with a possibility of occasional 7 given the right circumstances.

We all need a smile. The world is a better place for them.

Certainly is, chuck.

Is it really possible to measure sexual perversion?
I mean where is the upper limit against which you would measure yourself?

That is the problem, isn't it ? I mean one woman's doing it with the light on is another woman's plushie encounter, as I'm sure Masters and Johnson frequently stated.

I think we'd tend to measure ourselves against the most perverted thing we could think of, problem is my idea of 10 on the kinky scale might be someone elses idea of a three...

you cant, because its different things... like i said the rubber guy, way out there, but it wasnt about sex at all. so, would that then not count? even though he got a sexual pleasure from it, but wasnt having sex, nor sexual contact?

complicated.

i think really it's in the realms of drugs and pornography, once you develop a taste it can soon become an unquenchable desire, you start chasing after novelty and what seemed daring soon becomes tame

In order to assist with the kink scale, I've taken Bants suggestion that a 10 is related to goats and have uploaded some Goat Porn on my profile.

48 I'm sorry to hear about your mum xx

if something is sexually arousing then it's by definition surely, about sex?

agreed, slippery slope.

I'm sorry, just doing the Purity Test mentioned by Yoga ' have you ever masturbated while driving a moving land vehicle ' car,RV, truck, motorcycle or hearse' - enduring image.

id say so....
id put things like that. where its gone past actual sex, or sexual contact, at a 10.
blumpkins ( urgh) blood, other bodily stuff, needles, etc at a 9
nipple clamps, cock and ball torture etc, at about an 8

im about a 7. or 6.5

but like mercury says, someones 7 might be somone elses 3.
its all relative.
and depends on your partner as well i think. some i would barley be a 1 with.

Finally a bit of flirting with Dumbledore. It's geek flirting, but it is flirting none the less. We are comparing knitting to sex and he is throwing in some Linux.

It's impossible to manage a kink scale I think. The are things I would NEVER do, ever, that I don't wish to describe for fear of scaring ike the thread. The difficulty is probably around if 1 = missionary, under the sheets, lights off. And 10 = (removed for the sake of decency) then 2-8 has to cover just about everything else or equate particular actions into broadly similar scores, which is impossible. Someone's '3' might be annilingus. That might be someone else's '7'

haha, hearse. lol

though my answer would be yes.

and ive just remembered when i was younger and used to ride pillion, i used to get my boyfriend to keep the revs high..... for that reason.
haha

7s and 3s!

They'll be my bonus-balls on euromillions this week.