Kirsty, I agree with Bant, the Auditor might have genuinely made a mistake, but either way, he's been good enough to let you know, and not just vanished.
Bant, from a perspective very close to the Artist's, I often drop into a conversation with someone I'm getting to know that I would have loved to have had kids, especially if they have them. This is because over the last few years I've had more than my fair share of people assuming that I'm some child hating, career obsessed harpie, because I haven't had them. Nothing could be further from the truth, and I don't mind people talking about their children, so I tell them that to let them know it's ok to do so. I've also been very up front with any date (if it looks like it could go further), that I've not given up hope of it happening one day. Believe me, I feel a bit of a freak bringing that up with some bloke I hardly know, but I don't think it would be fair on either of us not to.
On the other hand, I would most definitely be using condoms with someone I'd only known for a week! Especially someone who'd been Internet dating.