most insensitive thing your XP/XH has ever said to you?

[chocoraisin]

Today: 4 weeks post separation, he left me (pregnant) for OW. Came round to see DS who has been ill.

asks me to play outside with them both, because he 'doesn't mind sharing daddy time' and said 'the best times in the world are when we get to share our son'

WTF?? Apart from the times you get your leg over, now that you've LEFT me and your son.

Shocked, I reply, do you even miss him when you're not here? XH replies: 'Yes of course, but bizarrely I'm a lot less stressed and more relaxed these days'.

(I turned on my heel and left immediately) Wish I'd said: GOOD for you. You utter utter shit of a man. I'm glad that YOU feel better now you left us. Never mind your pregnant wife and child who are going through hell. As long as YOU feel more relaxed now I'm sure we can all be happier.

FUCKS SAKE.

Please share some other horror stories with me to make me feel less alone :( feel like I'm the stupidest, most unloved woman in the world right now while he's off playing with our son... feeling cheery as chips and totally unstressed by life.

There must be SOME nice ones out there, its just FINDING them that seems to be the hard part!! And they change....you think they are really nice then live with them and realise they are arseholes. You look back (as i do) and realise that A or Z werent sooo bad after all. I mean some do treat you like princesses, someone i dated did treat me like a princess....wish we hadnt split now :(

choco - my dh is wonderful and we have a great relationship. Don't give up - there are some lovely men out there who would be very lucky to have you and the other women on this thread. Note:mostly they are exes!

Exes and for very good reasons....once you get a good one hold on tight. Glad you have found a good one lazarusb, lets hope everyone else here can too! x