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Confusion

109 replies

WeCouldHaveHadItAll · 12/01/2012 19:58

Well...where to start. Was married. With kiddies. Had affair. Feel in love BIG TIME. Got very scared. Affair off. Then on. Then off. Then on. Now off. Felt so right. But on-off nature meant trust was low. Anywaysup. Back with family now. Lovely to see kiddies. Wife is very keen. But I am uncertain. Very. Can't stop loving my RiRi. What to do?

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UnlikelyAmazonian · 12/01/2012 21:43

You're right. Sorry.

Op, when mum's got you out of the bath, can you get me a magnum from the fridge too?

AnyFucker · 12/01/2012 21:49

ah, that's the UA I know and love

is that a mini Magnum I see before me ?

WhasThisAllAbout · 12/01/2012 22:01

UA- don't spoil the fun, if nothing else this thread shows that AF and I are on the same wavelength. This makes me MN-Royalty by proxy. I can die happy now.

(Name changer and semi-lurker: not stalker smiley)

AnyFucker · 12/01/2012 22:03

I am common as muck, me

But not as common as RiRi

allegedly

ClaraSage · 12/01/2012 22:05

Mind yourself crossing the road now OP. Don't be late back, school tomorrow. When you get in don't play 'Adele' too loudly you might wake up Mummmy and Daddy.

HedleyLamarr · 12/01/2012 22:07

I'm a manhater?!? Grin

picnicbasketcase · 12/01/2012 22:09

Tittybiscuit.

WhasThisAllAbout · 12/01/2012 22:11

Here was my initial thought though (before fully realising tht the OP is a bit 'special'), how are there lovely, attractive single people in the world and yet Mr Adele-loving-can't write properly-fantasises over teen porn pop stars has 2 women on the go??

Beggars belief.

kayjaybabe · 12/01/2012 22:14

Once a cheater always a cheater, you must love your wife enough to f*ck off and let her and the kids have a happy life without a daddy who is their one day and gone the next, new girlfriend today then thinking oh no i love my wife tomorrow. Have the slightest bit of respect for your family and get a divorce and set up a schedule of split custody, i think its the least they desurve after what you have put them through! (sorry for my language and being so blunt but you wanted advice and thats mine)

Vicky0790 · 12/01/2012 22:28

I may be a newbie, but can we please not lower ourselves! This is some mn p taking the piss! Last comment on here!

AnyFucker · 12/01/2012 22:33

no

confusedgirl33 · 12/01/2012 23:58

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ClaraSage · 13/01/2012 00:07

What's his wife called (on here) then?

tethersend · 13/01/2012 00:22

no

I'm RiRi

smackapacca · 13/01/2012 00:26

I'm GiGi

(exotic)

tethersend · 13/01/2012 00:34

I'm piRipiRi

chipmonkey · 13/01/2012 00:50

IF this is for real, confusedgirl, then I would hope you are not thinking of going back to this guy. You usually find that the type that call MNers a bunch of manhating lesbians tend to be the sort that MNers had had to tell a few Home Truths about. And the Home Truths are rarely the nice sort.

izzywhizzyswinterwarmer · 13/01/2012 01:12

I'm stoned astounded.

OW 'fesses up on adulterer's post? Cue smell of burning.

The answer to your question is 'deluded' Clara. Same as his RiRi who is one very confusedgirl.

Which is not surprising. Given that the OP is all about MeMe. And can't string more than 6 words together.

So what attracted you to this pathetic particular lothario, cg?

confusedgirl33 · 13/01/2012 01:13

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TheCrunchUnderfoot · 13/01/2012 01:14

I'm RiRi and so's my wife

Eating lesbian biscuits IN YOUR SNUG

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izzywhizzyswinterwarmer · 13/01/2012 01:46

Poor you - what an asshole!

He's got more front than Selfridges to post here after leading you down the garden path.

Hope his wife reads this. It would be poetic justice if she kicks him out.

izzywhizzyswinterwarmer · 13/01/2012 03:48

Forget Adele OP, Mr Dylan wrote a song especially for you:

I once held her in my arms
She said she would always stay
But I was cruel and treated her like a fool
I threw it all away

One side's mountains in the palm of my hand
Rivers that ran through everyday
Now I must've been mad or I never knew what i had
I threw it all away

Love is all there is
And it makes the world go round
Love and only love it can't be denied
No matter what you think about it
You won't be able to live without it
Take a tip from one who's tried

So if you find someone
Who gives you all of their love
Take it to your heart
Don't let it stray
Because one thing is for certain
You'll surely be hurting
If you thow it all away
Just don't throw it all away

What a shame you didn't post here before you trampled on the hopes and dreams of two good women after they'd put their trust in you.

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