Do you always orgasm during sex? (Sorry... Who else to ask?!)

[SirBoobAlot]

I had fucking mindblowing good sex the other day. His entire focus was on making sure I enjoyed myself, and sharing in that. It was just... Wow.
And after the inital "where has he been hiding" type shock had eased off, I started wondering. Have I been particularly unfortunate with my lack of orgasm during sex before (despite instructions, positions, foreplay, technique, you name it...), or is it quite normal to not peak at all times? I am more curious than anything else.
During the recent sexathon intimate session I had no less than eight orgasms With partners before that, I would say if we had sex 4 times I might have one, not always though. So... Do you always reach orgasm during sex? Is it normal not to?

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I always orgasm during sex but I also orgasm from kissing.

Or being nervous in exams.

Or being really really pissed off.

At the drop of a hat really. If it's a nice hat.

arghhh, that's a curse, not an advantage

wtf were you like when you did your driving test ?

climbing onto the gearstick ?

I don't drive. Just as well really.

NERVOUS IN EXAMS AND BEING REALLY PISSED OFF?

What happened if you were in an exam and got really pissed off at one of the daft questions?

I mean..

I mean...

Fucking hell.

I would have loved to see the look on the invigilataor's face.

I'm the queen of quiet orgasms. well I have had a lot of practice.

When is it women hit their sexual peak? I'm a bit worried about that.

I think you might be mixing it up with just having a funny turn, OvO

Hi op
Nearly every time,
I do think it depends how sexual you are, how comfortable you are,the mood in which your in etc,, I never orgasmed with any partner before my DH and even then didn't until six months into our relationship..

75% of women NEVER orgasm during penetrative sex ........ so don't worry yourself.

The other 25%, well ............................. .......... well I'm not one of them but it doesnt bother me, so long as I get an orgasm when I want it.

Ah ladies you make me laugh.
I guess I was wondering more where I had been going wrong previously, that's all. I have issues with my "performance" due to some comments a while back, and guess maybe this had me doubting things, questioning my own enjoyment, previous partners. My underlying issues with sex are more of what is bothering me, I suppose. Apologies, my post was very badly worded.
BOF - love your xmas name, by the way!

Glad you are having a good time SBAL

My theory is that as we age we alter. I used to have one humungous peak leaving my knees weak like Whoopsys but as I have got older it is more like crossing a range of hills with many lesser peaks along the way. They happen most times UNLESS I am nervous or pissed off!

How do you orgasm through penetration?

Serious question.

I think mood helps. And age, in my case- easier as I've got older, probably more relaxed and more practiced.

But 8 times??? What the fuck was he doing, sbal ?

And you are worrying?

TMI Alert, however i find to orgasm during sex, it's all about making sure that the partners penis, is deep inside, then once there, lift your bottom slightly and tilt your pelvis upwards, bit like pilates and clench slightly, I find it makes it more intense and therefore easier to orgasm

Apparently my DH can feel this, and it feels good for him too, so win win really

By the way SirBoob what do you mean by "performance"? Were you getting score cards? Did he hold up a 5/10 or a 7/10 depending on how much he enjoyed it? Definitely a Loser and I take it he has gone and it is the New Man who is make you whoop? Good for you!

I orgasm easier and more explosively during penetrative sex when we do it ahem doggy style. think it's to do with the angle of the dangle, so to speak.

Thank god my bad back is cured

kissmyA it's the grind....you...and he, have to do some serious grinding.

I orgasm every time - many times. I don't think this is due to any particular prowess on the bloke's part, I just come easily. I think this is one of my few skills in life. Sadly I can't put it on my CV.

Isla, it was probably the position that cured your back

I'm with you Isla. DH doesn't know what's hit him (in a good way of course).

Grinding and little tiny movements whilst on top is also a winner.

Not boasting much

I orgasm everytime we have sex, just not through penetration.

8? 8 you say?

Jesus wept: I give up I really do. I am packing up my fanny and just walking away...... don't try to stop me.

This may be a stealth boast thread but it is the king of stealth boast threads and I wish it were mine

I orgasm every sex session but we normally do 69, playing whilst he is n me or using toys at same time. Ladies should always come first

I cant have a sex sesh without an orgasm it just doesnt feel finished imo.

I do now pretty much every time with DP but in the past hardly ever
I think its because after years of mingers selfish arseholes I am finally with "the One" and he is as concerned with how I'm doing as he is with his own enjoyment (and he can go on for ages while I take my time!!)
Never had 8 in a row before though