Do you always orgasm during sex? (Sorry... Who else to ask?!)

[SirBoobAlot]

I had fucking mindblowing good sex the other day. His entire focus was on making sure I enjoyed myself, and sharing in that. It was just... Wow.
And after the inital "where has he been hiding" type shock had eased off, I started wondering. Have I been particularly unfortunate with my lack of orgasm during sex before (despite instructions, positions, foreplay, technique, you name it...), or is it quite normal to not peak at all times? I am more curious than anything else.
During the recent sexathon intimate session I had no less than eight orgasms With partners before that, I would say if we had sex 4 times I might have one, not always though. So... Do you always reach orgasm during sex? Is it normal not to?

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Possibly TMI but I think this a really important subject Female orgasm is one of the last great taboos. I am similar to kaluki I had never had an orgasam with previous partners for possibly a number of reasons they either didn't know enough or/and they didn't care enough but with my present partner it is a matter of good manners he will not orgasm before I do and in the beginning that was tough because I had not 'learned ' to orgasm but with time and patience he taught me how and now I orgasm every time but not just through penetrate sex he....... massages my clitoris whilst inside me

...8??!

I think it's because he is prepared to wait for me - in the past it's been like a race to get there before its all over which piled on the pressure! My ex even used to have a go at me for not faking as it made him feel inadequate - what a charmer
You are so right - its all about manners and consideration.

This thread is hilarious What meanies for saying it's boasting.

(There is NO WAY I am putting any details on here, I see several MNers quite regularly.....)

So, SBAL, you coming back here to explain, or what? we're all waiting!

Would happily offer advice on your feelings of inadequacy, but too busy dealing with my ownjust cant find the will!

I always make sure that they enjoy themselves

Now you're being creepy, Andy.

Every single time in my case. We have been together for 14 years, but he has been my one and only so cannot compare. I didn't realise it didn't happen to everyone else!

I orgasm about 95% of the time, but not through penatrative sex. Whether he comes first or not, he always sorts me out unless I really can't be bothered or it just isn't feeling right.

Luck you Sirboob :) (and yes i know her in RL too ;-))