Do you consider your dh/partner to be your best friend?

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Sometimes I feel a bit weird that I do. Apart from my mum he is the only person I know who doesn't get on my nerves after a while.

I have female friends - coffee, lunches, nights out - but no one that I could say oh my best friend is x,y,z

Is this weird? Is your oh your best friend or am I in a minority?

Just curious

no, hes my husband which in itself as a title carries all the weight it needs to. he would do almost anything for me and is a kind generous person who more than occasionally pisses me off. he would die for me, but not turn off his computer for me.

a best friend i think is someone who is not your life partner but who woudl do anything for you - anything

He's definitely my best friend. I couldn't have married him otherwise.

Absolutely, it's us against the world!

Yes. He is absolutely my best friend and I'm his.

Yes, definitely.

I have lost of really good friends, but dh is definitely my best friend.

Good god no. Totally different relationship. Friendship is far too important to confuse with one's partner!

No hes not

Absolutely, and there could be no other. :)

Of the three blokes I've lived with, Mr Inferior is definitely the nicest. But friendship is different.

Yes. DH is definitely my best friend. The other day he went somewhere he had been wanting to go for ages and I stayed at home with DS, when I asked if he enjoyed it, he said "hmm, you weren't there to talk to about things" which really touched me and I think it's that feeling that makes our marriage.
I do have a girl best friend too though.

He certainly is my best friend, I have friends but DH is my best friend I tell him everything.

Yes, he's my best friend. He puts me first and I put him first. We live in a revolving door.

Am a bit sad that although I have a lot of friends, because I've moved around a lot I don't really have an absolute best friend these days.

I have a good few "lets go and get pissed together" friends though.

DH told me the other day that I'm the only one he can talk to about anything other than work or trivia.

Yes. Doesn't mean there aren't things I'm far more likely to do/talk about with other people. But yes. Am very grateful.

Yes, definitely.

Noooooo!

I have a best friend, but it isn't him!

Mine is and I like it that way. :) Can't imagine not being best friends with a partner - I'd always choose him over anyone else to do anything with because we have so much fun and have similar approaches/tastes/outlooks so time spent is always brilliant.

That said, we haven't been together that long so I don't have the hindsight of a long marriage/union! Let's see in 20 years...

I can't imagine anything worse than doing everything with my DP

You don;t have to do everything together to be best friends, surely?

I think he's kind of my best friend.

But I don't like that "Today I marry my best friend" stuff. Each to their own and that, but I have never actually wanted to shag my best friends.

Yes, of course you need to have other friends who you see by yourself.

Yes - but he has been my best friend longer than we've been together.

I do however have a "girly best friend" too. But husband is the one to whom I will tell everything.