HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?

[MusicLover]

I was going to change my name for this, but bugger it Ive done nothing to be ashamed of..

I was going on my DH History on the pc to find a site he had been on recently...To my horror I found "Porn Sites" !!!!

I feel repulsed TBH. I cant get it out of my mind. I've not confronted him. I work some evenings so thats when he obviously goes on them.
My friend went through this a couple of years ago with her dp, so my DH does know how I feel about porn.
Im no prude at all, but its the secrecy of it thats really doing my head in.

Is this just a man thing?
Am I overeacting?

How would you feel?

I know that DH would be extremely p*ed off if he found me looking at porn sites. Men are very funny about their manhood aren't they? If anyone looks bigger they go all....odd.

Why do they all think we want/need an enormous 'member' to satisfy us?

The pics were not hardcore at all. Alot were just pictures, some were just short clips.

But he has signed up & become a member of one (free)

If you tell him that be prepared for him to ask you to show him . He might think you are now okay with it!

This happened to me when I first met my dh. I was left alone in his flat and using his computer and all these PORN addresses popped up. I was mortified and rang him and told him we should split up because he obviously didn't love me.... He said "get a life"...

5 years on and he still has the odd look but nothing like he used to and he loves me more than ever. Its just a man thing, honestly, and don't think he doesn't love you or be shocked at what he's looked at. For some strange reason, they just need to do it. Same way as we need to look at beauty products!

pfer - init just my DH gets upset over celeb piccys! lol.

ML - u say he's a menmber of a free site - i'm sure my DH is as well - and tbh to an extent I don't mind that - cos he's not paying iycwim. I'd be horrified if he was doing those pay per view thingys. - least he's not come out with my DH's excuse - i'm making a pron web site - erm ok then! lol.

I was honestly only bothered that mine had looked at 'hard core' in my view, if ur's isn't then it's not as bad- althou if it makes u feel bad it's worth adressing to DH.

munz, same here, I'm sure dh looks at freebie sites at the tamer end of the spectrum but am not really bothered - tbh he needs an 'outlet' as with 2 dds under 2 I'm not exactly the red hot raver I used to be .

However, I would be more than concerned if it was, as you say, hardcore type stuff.

whats actually classed as hardcore?

Call me naive!!!

whispers - for me it was ahem v v explicit pics with girls and several men and ahem tools which were not ur 'normal' rampent rabbits sort of big bondage types

just for all you ladies out there....

...Here

Just clicked on the link and remembered I was at work!! ooops

LOL LOL!!!

choccy u and me both! shame on u Dh of mine!

so come on man's point of view then.

Girls, remember to take that link out of your history .

• i'll look at home now I know DH is not threatened! lol.

Porns porn innit

seriously tho why get stressed about a few pics and/or vids? At least u know hes not going off and getting it somewhere else. besides Mrs Munz u can say nothing to me about anything eh? CE ring a bell??

Woman fantasise loads as well, just men have crappy imaginations compared to women and sometimes need a bit of visual help

if some blokes got a 12" whanger changes are he couldnt get a full on Nelsons Column anyway ... and if he did he prob pas out due to lack of blood in the rest of his body....

lol

Its crap, I wouldnt bother. I dont think these sites that are supposed to be for girls are ever any good. The blokes never get their bits out and then if you do get any action then I dont see how its different to any other porn. Sex is sex, its just down to what does it for you surely?

yes DH! lol MWAH!!!!

(tbh don't think male porn does anything for me anyhow. - brad pitt any day! )

We are staying with family so can't even look there!

Maybe I should just use dh phone

I found porn stuff on our PC that Dh had tried to delete. I really wasn't fussed that he was looking at it but the whole secrecy of it, and deleting it really really pissed me off.

I asked him how he'd feel if he knew I'd been looking a sites/men with better bodies, more handsome and BIGGER willies? He said he's be gutted.
I also told I had this horrid and sworded(sp?) image of him wanking at the pc after I'd gone to bed. He was utterly horrified at that, totally grossed out.
hhehehehehahahahaha

puts philly sandwich in the dog...

...retches...

My dh didn't try to cover up the fact he had been wanking in front of it as we had a suede chair, I'll leave the rest for you imagination (cringing)

its such a personal thing if you feel upset about this sort of scenario or not. personally I wouldn't be as long as it was normal naked women kind of thing as opposed to men or worse. So as to how I would feel, no I wouldn't feel upset. I don't think you were snooping either, you were only checking his history. sit down and talk to him about it. tell him how you feel.

Ewwwwwwww.

gross!