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Strap ons?!

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TimeForACHEEKYWineOrTheBottle · 31/01/2011 23:41

Would you wear one if you DH/OH/DP asked you to?

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KikiJane · 03/02/2011 17:34

I suppose sitting on you/the strap-on is one way to control the depth, although perhaps not for beginners Wink

twopeople · 03/02/2011 17:46

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Curlybrunette · 03/02/2011 22:02

A couple of things I've wondered about (sorry these are personal questions!)

  1. how do you make it clean down there, do you have to put fingers/soap up to make it clean?
  2. is the orgasm a man gets from up the bum/prostate thingy better than a normal one?

I haven't tried anal but what worries me is that if I went up dh's, or he went up mine, and it came out covered in poo I would be so completely embarrassed and freaked out that it was puts me off the most.

Also, if the orgasm is better if I went up dh's bum and he had a super dooper orgasm I'd be paranoid that normal sex with me would never be as good for him.

Hope you don't mind me asking!?!

emmyloopsylou · 03/02/2011 22:13

I think some men are more open to expermineting with this than others. My dh would die if I suggested it, I know ex's who have liked the idea tho.

Poo covered toys and bits are a myth Curly, if you are regular, went at least a few hours previously, not massively constipated, you don't store poo there, unless you are badly constipated or hold it in basically Shock

Thingumy · 03/02/2011 22:18

You can use condoms on the toys.

I think you find that most men say the strap on compliments/adds another height to their orgasm and the majority wouldn't give up their 'normal' orgasm over that.

You don't need enemas,you just need to be clean and to have empty bowels.

HTH Wink

Curlybrunette · 03/02/2011 22:19

Thank you emmy! It's just always been a horrible image in my mind, the mess, the smell, oh the embarrassment...Blush

KikiJane · 04/02/2011 09:48

Meh. All sex is messy to a certain degree. It cleans off

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