Strap ons?!

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Would you wear one if you DH/OH/DP asked you to?

Seriously, I would run a mile if a man asked me to do that.

I can state categorically that DH would not be up for this, especially after some interesting pain relief he has received in hospital.

Another woman has fiddled with parts of him that I never have! ( I did watch ) She was a qualified medical professional though, so that's okay

mal, mal, mal

< waves enthusiastically >

have you seen my new pet perve...isn't he just the cutest ikkle thing ?

Go for it if your both comfortable with it. Start small and plenty of lube

< crooks pinky finger >

< winks >

Traitor.

I have decided to take a different tack with my stalkers, mal

I am going to cultivate 'em

Like bacteria in a petrie dish?

I tried it with DH. Those strap ons wag about all over the place. Bloody hard work

Sorry, but it would be a no for me. Call me boring if you like, but no.

I think it's hugely emasculating tbh.
But perhaps that's the point?

yes, mal, call it my litle "experiment"

erm, not the strap-on thingy is my experiment

seems like too much hard work to me

it would put my back out, I think

Those feeldoe things look damn uncomfortable.

Yeah why not, try it once if you like it do it again :o

Obviously no one should feel obliged to try any sexual activity that they really don't fancy trying. But being turned on by the idea of a woman doing him with a strap on doesn't make a man gay. The clue is in the fact that he wants a woman to do it to him.

SGB

Oh i know that and he knows that. Like he said, everyone likes to experiment and try new things. Im a shy person as it is and first time doing doggy with him i was un-sure as im not confident iykwim!?

So most your saying best bet is use a vibe and plenty of lube

I've never even slipped in a finger. It scares me. I wouldn't be against it but it's a bit scary like... what do you do!?

What you mean what do we do?!

Sorry name change!!!!!!!

ready for next experiment nurse AF!!!!!!!

Absolutely lots of lube! Might have forgotten to say that bit. Liquid Silk is good.

Not an ordinary vibe if you are a beginner FFS! It will go up and it will get stuck and it will be YOU adding to the list of this year's Great Xmas Party Stories for your local A&E department staff.
Anything that's going to go up someone's bum needs a wide, flat base or to be fastened to some sort of wide grip or handle. Or indeed, strapped to you.

Or you could always...y'know...hold it.

Gosh. There really is no limit to what I can learn on MN!

One minute it's how to make fluffy dumplings, the next it's that strap-ons aren't just for same sex couples