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Strap ons?!

82 replies

TimeForACHEEKYWineOrTheBottle · 31/01/2011 23:41

Would you wear one if you DH/OH/DP asked you to?

OP posts:
KikiJane · 02/02/2011 14:02

Every day's a school day :)

rumred · 02/02/2011 16:07

and make sure he gives his jacksy a good wash before you start.

strap ons are good fun, ive only ever used them with women though. great exercise too

Gay40 · 02/02/2011 18:02

She doesn't need to ask, usually.

Gay40 · 02/02/2011 18:03

Not entirely sure how they are emasculating, unless you're a bit shakey on your orientations.

nikki1978 · 02/02/2011 18:16

Oh I do the prostate thing loads. He loves it. Just put some lube on your finger, make sure he has had a good wash and then when you are 'in' there push you finger about 2 inches in and downwards and you will feel soomething like a walnut. Give it a rub and bobs your uncle. Honestly it is very good for the men. Bit like our clitoris really.

emmyloopsylou · 02/02/2011 18:40

OMG, I have just got visions of people using little vibes now for bum fun and with all that lube..........whoops.

I shouldn't laugh but I did listen to SGb.

ItsGraceAgain · 02/02/2011 19:32

Bit like our clitoris really. Actually it's analagous to the G-spot. The clitoris is analagous to the tip of the penis (only with MORE nerve endings!)

carmenelectra · 02/02/2011 20:39

Yes, i would do itGrin. Often do the old finger thing and we do a a couple of specific bum toys. Not used a strap on, but I would if he wanted. Think I might feel a bit daft, but I would do itGrin.

EricNorthmansMistress · 02/02/2011 21:18

No fucking way Grin

momentsintime · 02/02/2011 22:10

anyfucker, r u a troll?

AnyFucker · 02/02/2011 22:33

momentsintime

yes

what of it ?

AnyFucker · 02/02/2011 22:40

well ?

Thingumy · 02/02/2011 22:52

Do people think strap ons within heterosexual relationships are a big fetish news?

They are a great fantasy if that's your kink.

Read up on the reviews on toys and as everybody has said be clean, go small to start with and respect the 'taker's' wishes.

momentsintime · 03/02/2011 00:11

Mmm

BuzzLightBeer · 03/02/2011 00:14

there are strapless strap-ons? who knew?

StuffingGoldBrass · 03/02/2011 00:21

Don't confuse it with your bra now Buzz. That could give a man the Wrong Impression.

TimeToStartACHEEKYDiet · 03/02/2011 00:51

Im the OP just had a namechange since posting this.

DH asked me to use a strap on - hes not gay or anything its just experimental things that normal people want to try iykwim?!

I told DH i posted on this - hes away at the moment training for a new job. He was turned on that i had posted asking for advice Grin

Anyway when i spoke to him tonight, one of the first things he asked was 'has anyone replied to that thread you put on MN' So i said yes it 3 pages long Grin

He cant wait to read some of the replies Grin

Thanks for your advice, we are going to look into something small and have a go, i am shy when it comes to sex but he as reassured me that its only sex nad nothing to be ashamed of. I am his wife and its not seedy etc and that his intentions isnt to make me feel uncomfortable. When he gets home at the weekend, we are going to look into 'devices' to use and take it from there..

Im one of these girls who like it on top, dogy or him on top and thats it, im shy when it comes to sex, adnn to my personal image, i feel fat and ugly but he says im not which i believe he feels soooooo il let you all know.........GrinWink

Thanks for all your advice and to the ladies who PM'd me thank you Grin

Can always rely on Mumsnet Grin

Gay40 · 03/02/2011 08:24

Sounds like you are in for a great weekend! And he's right - nothing between two consenting adults is anything to be ashamed of, nor does any particular act define your sexuality.
Enjoy x

KikiJane · 03/02/2011 09:43

Just an added little bit of advice -- we found it was easier for him to go on top (cowgirl!) while we were getting used to using ours. It allowed him to be in control of depth and speed because it takes some getting used to.

TimeToStartACHEEKYDiet · 03/02/2011 12:13

bloody hell kiki how much do you think i weigh Wink

im only 4ft 11in hes 5ft 11 haha

batman47555 · 03/02/2011 12:17

TS i guess if he was bent over kitchen table you would need a box to stand on lol

KikiJane · 03/02/2011 12:47

Hmm He has never put his weight on me. That's what his knees are for!

TimeToStartACHEEKYDiet · 03/02/2011 13:08

Arrrrrrrrr like that you mean Grin Wink

KikiJane · 03/02/2011 13:25

hahahahaha I dread to think what you think I meant!

TimeToStartACHEEKYDiet · 03/02/2011 15:12

sat on me haha