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Do you still kiss with tongues?

99 replies

Friendlygirl · 11/10/2005 09:56

Have been marriee 9 years and had 2 babies - 2.5 y. o. and 4 months. We used to kiss, then it was just when we made love and then that stopped. I miss it and told my husband so. He said that he liked it but had forgotten it. I feel quite shy even talking to him about it and would prefer he didn't do it if he didn't like it. Do you still do it?

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piffle · 11/10/2005 12:18

Yes, infact we always kiss quite deeply even as an affectionate greeting
5 yrs together...

RTKMonherBROOMSTICK · 11/10/2005 12:19

no not here either didn't ever like it really

even when a teenager

ScreamEagle · 11/10/2005 12:19

OMG Yes! Couldn't imagine NOT snogging. It's one of the most intimate and passionate things you can do and me and dh love it.

We kiss in front of the lids although try not to do tongues too much in front of them as the kids stand there taking this pp*ss with their hands over their eyes, saying eurgh gross! We are always touching, feeling, kissing.

As for talking dirty with each other - it's compulsory! He is the only person I have ever been totally uninhibited with and we do things I have never dreamt of before and I thought I was broad minded.

I joke that when we are both 90 and rocking back and forth in our old peoples home, we will talk very loudly about all the dirty stuff we did as "youngsters"!

RTKMonherBROOMSTICK · 11/10/2005 12:20

kissing yes but tongues no

CreepyJess · 11/10/2005 12:51

ScreamEagle, our kids do the same

CountessDracula · 11/10/2005 12:54

yes we do after 16 years together but not all the time
I love a good snog

CountessDracula · 11/10/2005 12:55

actually i must say that one thing that I really love is snogging while lieing on the grass in a park or somethng- reminds me of my YOOF!

auntymandy · 11/10/2005 12:56

We sit watching telly together holding hands or snuggled up. He always kisses me hello, goodbye etcHad a laugh at a mate once , I said how nice it was he and his wife always went everywhere together..he said..'its so i dont have to kiss her goodbye!'

deegward · 11/10/2005 13:16

Like many on here I love a good snog, more sometimes than the other!

DDh always kisses goodbye, and then again hello when he comes back after work, although those are pecks not snogs.

ThomBat · 11/10/2005 13:36

God yes, i love snogging him. We don't do it a lot, purely becasue it always ends up really passionate and usually leads to sex, I can barely remeber a time when snog with him didn't end up with us having sex so it can be a dangerous thing to start f we're unable to see it through!!!! There isn't the opportunity to have a right good old snog most days. We kiss and cuddle quite a lot still. He'll come in from work and we'll have a cuddle and kiss then get on with putting Lottie to bed and making dinner.

HausOfHorrors · 11/10/2005 13:46

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triceratops · 11/10/2005 14:02

I love to snog, I am sure we are getting better at it as the years go by. I like to have my toes sucked too .

crazydazy · 11/10/2005 16:17

Yeah still snog but only if sex is on the agenda!!!! No point otherwise

crazydazy · 11/10/2005 16:28

Toes sucked???? Ewwwwwwww!!!!

I hate my feet even being touched let alone sucked!!!!

Lizita · 11/10/2005 16:33

ooh feet! There's something very sexual about having your feet massaged......

trefusis · 11/10/2005 16:34

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sunchowder · 11/10/2005 16:47

Hardly ever..

Bozza · 11/10/2005 16:48

I used to love snogging when I was younger. Would usually find someone to snog on a night out whether or not I was interested in them. And in the early days with DH we were snogging all the time - all those long goodnights!

Blondeinlondon · 11/10/2005 19:51

I think everyone who is seeing their partner or lover tonight should make an effort and do some kissing with tongues.

Everyone to report back on how it went tomorrow morning!

Bozza · 11/10/2005 21:38

Will do. He's off to Germany in the morning so need a bit of a farewell.

Racers · 12/10/2005 10:16

Sorry Blondeinlondon there's no hanky panky to report as I've not been very well for a few days now

However, as the thread has made it to the homepage, maybe more people will report in for you!?

Passionkiller · 12/10/2005 13:43

Ok have finally got into the halloween spirit.

Still loads of snogging chez passion.

Iklboo · 12/10/2005 13:46

All the time...seeing him off to work kiss, home from work kiss - hell, just stood in the kitchen waiting for the kettle to boil kiss!
Mid you, we HAVE only been married..oooh...50 weeks this Saturday - and I'm 36+ weeks pregnant with our first - plenty of time for it to wear off I suppose

CarolinaFullMoon · 12/10/2005 13:54

with tongues is mostly only when we're at it, these days (so prob about once every 2 months ).

tongue-thrusting is horrible though - so glad I'm not a teenager anymore and don't have to put up with that. More sophisticated tongue action is v nice, all too rare as parents though.

Blondeinlondon · 12/10/2005 15:01

Well I did engage in some with tongues kissing last night - it was nice
I turned down the offer of a shag that followed though